Further to my "Hmm, not sure what to think..." Post

[mcginitys]

Another strange incident came from this. I'm not as upset with it. In fact, life is so good right now that complaining is pointless. I'm also not so selfish as to make a deal of it

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[mcginitys]

I think there is something to be said with my old thoughts on marriage. I was a bitter man at some point, especially because of my past. My thoughts on marriage have adjusted.

I still feel strongly that most people get married just because they love that person. Love is one thing, but there are several other layers that I think a lot of people don't even think of. There are levels of maturity required. Both parties individually need to be ready for that lifelong commitment. Some people can only work together for a span of time, sometimes, 10 years. It doesn't mean they won't be happy together in that time. It doesn't mean it can last individual personal growth, evolution, and life changes.

You might be right in that I painted a picture of my thoughts and beliefs on a certain type of canvas. My nature is to learn and evolve. In writer speak, I'm always doing another edit of my life work.

And I know there is some disharmony in their own world. That person's relationship isn't exactly right. It isn't exactly what it should be.

Thanks for the words.

I mean, I love Jennifer Love Hewitt, doesn't mean I should marry her.