Aug 25, 2023 16:34
Oops apparently he pushed my mom a little too far this time.
I didn’t realize it when I made the initial post, but part of their talk included her telling him that if he doesn’t knock it off right now, she’s gonna put him in a home.
She’s never threatened that before.
She told me that I’m not to take him his dinner at night anymore. She’ll be taking the plate in there herself.
And if he fucks that up, she’ll do once-a-week meal preps of sandwiches that she’ll deliver to his room once a week.
She said he tried to blame me for some of the way HE’S been acting, and the things he was listing were things I’ve had to change not because I wanted to but because of HIS behavior and so she kinda let loose on him for about 2 hours.
He then tried to blame her for some stuff and she was like “okay AGAIN these are things that you started, I had to adjust to deal with you, and now you’re mad at ME?”
OH and he said one of the things he wants to do that he says we won’t let him do is buy a car for $2000 and take it to see his sister.
The funniest part about this is he can’t stand being with his sister for more than five minutes. Not to mention the fact that he’s REALLY off in terms of money.
In this area you can’t get even a junker for $2000. He’d need at least $6000 (which we don’t have), and it would need some work and it wouldn’t be reliable. He can’t work on cars anymore, so that’s out.
I also had him drive me through a parking lot the other day because I wanted to check something on my truck, and he almost hit two parked vehicles and I have no idea how he didn’t scrape a trailer hitch on the back of a parked pickup truck. He drove SO close to it.
She told him “go ahead. Get a car for $2000. I didn’t tell you no.”
She asked him this morning if he found one yet and he said he changed his mind on the car thing 😂
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