Wants and desires
Why is it that We feel guilty for wanting? Why is it that We feel wanting is all about what "I" want? It seems illogical that Spirit would give Us desires and then tell Us We're not supposed to have them... but in the other hand, what if the lesson is that We're supposed to overcome them?
*sigh*
Regardless, We DO have wants and desires and feel that We cannot skip trying to find and/or have them. As SlaveMaster says, "There is no 'slipping of steps'!" So, as part of Our release and renewal on Solstice, We are writing down what We want in a partner (again) and putting it out there.
If you know of a man who is looking for anything similar to this, please network and send him Our way!
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We want a Knight, a Consort and a Priest, all wrapped up in a male slave.
Knight: Our Knight is a man who will literally fight for Us, even if just for Us to watch him fight. The Knight, the Chevalier, is the protector, the shield, the bodyguard, and all that entails, wrapped up in a person who is completely loyal and focused on Our safety and protection whether We actually need it or not. This person wouldn't just be a fighter, but would have the skills a bodyguard would have; the ability to assess a situation, locate escape routes, find potential threats, etc. he could wear a SECURITY shirt and completely own it. He understands the appeal of controlled violence and it might well be a fetish of his, too. he is the powerful shadow one step behind.
Consort: Our Consort will be used as a tool to gather sexual energy for ritual or spiritual connection. he is a lover, who knows his place as a subordinate, and is always aware and appreciative of the honor it is to be with Us, physically. he can control himself simply by being ordered to, so there is no need for chastity nor will there be any begging for release. he is a knowledgeable lover and comfortable being the aggressor such that he is able to direct the sexual liaison for Our pleasure, because We want him to do so. he is comfortable with Us connecting with Spirit during sex and exhibiting behavior, such as channeling, that might not normally be thought of in sex. he doesn't necessarily need kink to get off, but pain and kink doesn't turn him off, either. he is able to be aggressive, give pain and kink, too, as directed, in sex. he is happy to not orgasm himself until We are pleased, satiated and allow him to do so.
Priest: Our Priest is a man who considers himself celibate, with the exception of Us. This isn't about monogamous behavior on his part, but is about Our Priest surrendering a vow to Us and Our will. We will be free to take other lovers as We wish, which sounds a lot like cuckoldry, but it is more than that; it's not about humiliation or degradation, but about worshiping the Priestess and her power of choice. In addition, there are the more common roles of the Priest; the care of the Priestess and the care of the items used for ritual being of utmost importance. In addition being able to hold space and having a knowledge of inner energy and its movement would be welcome skills. Obviously, spirituality, and the support of Us in Ours, should be important.
In addition to these description, the following points are important:
And, last but not least, he should have a high enough emotional IQ that allows for meaningful communication about emotional, psychological and spiritual needs and conflicts.
So, We think that's about it! We KNOW he's out there...
*sigh*
Regardless, We DO have wants and desires and feel that We cannot skip trying to find and/or have them. As SlaveMaster says, "There is no 'slipping of steps'!" So, as part of Our release and renewal on Solstice, We are writing down what We want in a partner (again) and putting it out there.
If you know of a man who is looking for anything similar to this, please network and send him Our way!
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We want a Knight, a Consort and a Priest, all wrapped up in a male slave.
Knight: Our Knight is a man who will literally fight for Us, even if just for Us to watch him fight. The Knight, the Chevalier, is the protector, the shield, the bodyguard, and all that entails, wrapped up in a person who is completely loyal and focused on Our safety and protection whether We actually need it or not. This person wouldn't just be a fighter, but would have the skills a bodyguard would have; the ability to assess a situation, locate escape routes, find potential threats, etc. he could wear a SECURITY shirt and completely own it. He understands the appeal of controlled violence and it might well be a fetish of his, too. he is the powerful shadow one step behind.
Consort: Our Consort will be used as a tool to gather sexual energy for ritual or spiritual connection. he is a lover, who knows his place as a subordinate, and is always aware and appreciative of the honor it is to be with Us, physically. he can control himself simply by being ordered to, so there is no need for chastity nor will there be any begging for release. he is a knowledgeable lover and comfortable being the aggressor such that he is able to direct the sexual liaison for Our pleasure, because We want him to do so. he is comfortable with Us connecting with Spirit during sex and exhibiting behavior, such as channeling, that might not normally be thought of in sex. he doesn't necessarily need kink to get off, but pain and kink doesn't turn him off, either. he is able to be aggressive, give pain and kink, too, as directed, in sex. he is happy to not orgasm himself until We are pleased, satiated and allow him to do so.
Priest: Our Priest is a man who considers himself celibate, with the exception of Us. This isn't about monogamous behavior on his part, but is about Our Priest surrendering a vow to Us and Our will. We will be free to take other lovers as We wish, which sounds a lot like cuckoldry, but it is more than that; it's not about humiliation or degradation, but about worshiping the Priestess and her power of choice. In addition, there are the more common roles of the Priest; the care of the Priestess and the care of the items used for ritual being of utmost importance. In addition being able to hold space and having a knowledge of inner energy and its movement would be welcome skills. Obviously, spirituality, and the support of Us in Ours, should be important.
In addition to these description, the following points are important:
- he should feel that obedience is the cornerstone of Our relationship.
- he should be proud of being a slave and have the self confidence to carry it well.
- he should be masculine and not need to be feminized.
- he most be relocatable and able to support himself as part of the household.
- Edge play should not be foreign to this person, in fact, areas such as blood play, cutting, needles, knife play should be important. In addition, he should be able to, or willing to learn to be, the giver of these things as well.
- he must be tolerant of the LGBTQ community and comfortable going to gay bars and getting hit on. This turns Us on... and We do community work in this area of society for which he will be used as a guard.
- he must also be tolerant and/or knowledgeable about gender issue and fluidity; he should appreciate that We have a healthy mix of masculine and feminine energies, but that We identify as female always.
- he should be interested in ink and holes.
- he should be interested in maintaining a certain level of formality, even if romance and love blossom.
And, last but not least, he should have a high enough emotional IQ that allows for meaningful communication about emotional, psychological and spiritual needs and conflicts.
So, We think that's about it! We KNOW he's out there...