All I want is Everything. Am I Asking Too Much?
I'm martina_d , paranoid and suspicious by nature, yet absurdly pleased at the prospect of new friends. If you found me through a mutual friend or community, drop me a line and let me know, and I'll probably add you. Unless you appear to be a psychopath or cyber-stalker, in which case, nothing much here would interest you anyway. The majority of my entries are friends-locked for privacy reasons.
In keeping with my OCD tendencies, I periodically go through a "tidying-up" of my friends list, where I let go the people with whom I don't feel I've made a genuine connection. I don't make a grand announcement of my intentions to pare it down. I like to keep people around me who make me laugh, who share common interests with me, and with whom I share a frequent dialogue. If for some reason one day you find yourself on the cutting room floor, so to speak, please don't be offended. It's probably not you, it's me. I'd expect you to do the same if you came to realize that we weren't on the same page. Or planet. After all, it's only LJ, not Real Life, and I truly wish you well.
In keeping with my OCD tendencies, I periodically go through a "tidying-up" of my friends list, where I let go the people with whom I don't feel I've made a genuine connection. I don't make a grand announcement of my intentions to pare it down. I like to keep people around me who make me laugh, who share common interests with me, and with whom I share a frequent dialogue. If for some reason one day you find yourself on the cutting room floor, so to speak, please don't be offended. It's probably not you, it's me. I'd expect you to do the same if you came to realize that we weren't on the same page. Or planet. After all, it's only LJ, not Real Life, and I truly wish you well.