Friend here. One who knows the feeling, albeit for different reasons. I've come to the conclusion that you can never count on anybody but yourself. Do what you believe is right, try NOT to do things that are out and out wrong, and be very sparing with compromises to your convictions.
Being accused of lying when I know better...sux...being accused and NOT ONE PERSON stands up....well, I had to think about that. Was it because no one cared? Because no one read far enough into the utter crap to see it? Consensus says TLDNR. Feeling ambivalent about that. It's not like I need constant praise, and I know you're not one of those either. But I understand some positive reinforcement is nice...especially when it's obvious you need it, right?
FoS IS GOING GREAT!!! I am so relieved and happy that you have more than enough good sense to do this and make it AWESOME. I hope after it's over I can also say I am PROUD of the way you handled things...and as for the other...we all make mistakes...there is no shame in being human. Admitting mistakes, correcting non-productive behavior and going about your life is what you do...if there are others not on board with that...well...see that third sentence in the first paragraph above. It sux...that's just the way it is. Acceptance will free your mind up to do more things better. Really. I promise.
Being accused of lying when I know better...sux...being accused and NOT ONE PERSON stands up....well, I had to think about that. Was it because no one cared? Because no one read far enough into the utter crap to see it? Consensus says TLDNR. Feeling ambivalent about that. It's not like I need constant praise, and I know you're not one of those either. But I understand some positive reinforcement is nice...especially when it's obvious you need it, right?
FoS IS GOING GREAT!!! I am so relieved and happy that you have more than enough good sense to do this and make it AWESOME. I hope after it's over I can also say I am PROUD of the way you handled things...and as for the other...we all make mistakes...there is no shame in being human. Admitting mistakes, correcting non-productive behavior and going about your life is what you do...if there are others not on board with that...well...see that third sentence in the first paragraph above. It sux...that's just the way it is. Acceptance will free your mind up to do more things better. Really. I promise.
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