I kind of agree, but from opposite gender perspective. I like a woman with a little "meat" on her bones. Having lived with someone who was ridiculously image-consciouss and anorexic for many years, I can honestly say that sort of mania is not for me.
It's all a matter of opinion/tastes of course, but I think the over-obsessing is something that carries into the picture. In high school I never liked the jocks or gymnists, so I think that's where my obsession with fat boys or skinny musicians who didn't work out at all came from. So, it's a little more than being just shallow.
As a raw foodist, I freak when I get under 110 pounds -- I hate the way my butt looks so I start chowing down on the manna bread :)
you know it's funny, my boyfriend wants to get healthier and work out and I don't want him to unless he trims down first! lol I've never been into muscled guys right now and he has gained weight since we first met (which doesn't bother me at all) and if he starts building muscle right now he's going to have the broadest biggest shoulders and pecks, totally not what I'm into. But of course when you're with someone for so long you tend to end up being into them either way.
I love strength...absolutely love it! The cave-lady in me is totally turned on by a strong man, strong forearms just kill me. And when we're having sex if he is one top of me I can't help but be turned on by rubbing my hands on his pecks and shoulders. I would like him to trim down a bit before building muscle but I'll still like it this way too...just so long as he doesn't go he-man on me!
Oh and I TOTALLY agree with you on the V shape ICK ICK ICK!! I hate hips, guys should not have a sexier belly than a girl, they should look STRONG not like a carved statue.
I love strength too, I love when a guy picks me up and swings me around. I also like it to hurt a little bit when the guy is on top of me during sex. I like that feeling of vulnerabilty.
Also, what I like about fat guys is that the fat around their bellies make their penises look smaller and I prefer smaller penises. I mean not real small like Sting's 3-incher, but between 6 to 8 inches is perfect for me :)
Ha-ha, yeah, that's a good way to put it -- hips and a too chiseled stomach is way too fem for a guy.
YES I am totally with you on that. Damn I am a petite girl and I had sex with a guy once that was so painful because he was too big! My abdomen ached for a day after!
One time I was getting ready to have sex with this guy, and his penis, I swear to god, was almost as big as Long Dong Silver's -- and the head of it was the size of a baseball!!
"It's such a contradiction, but I honestly think I'd prefer a Domino's eating slob who drinks a good, hearty beer over someone who's obsessing over food combining.
As long as he is open-minded towards what I'm doing ;)"
You just described your average Scotsman Mary Anne (and that actually IS true!!!)
Scotland has the highest rate of heart disease in Europe....and it's just cause we do the things that make us happy and sod the consequences usually.
I aint no waif, i like a good hearty meal (and I LOVE to cook) and I like to have a beer :-)
and robert smith is gorgeous.....i think moreso for his face..he has very nice eyes and lips. i also like chubby elvis. and i like skinny guys like john rotten or skinny but slightly buff like deniro in taxi driver.
Big is good no matter what -- then the "V" shape isn't so prominent like it is with raw food and vegan guys.
You wouldn't like me though, I'm more on the petite, thin side -- definitely not skinny though. Thinner than most normal people, but not nearly as thin as a movie star ;)
Oh, I see what you're saying. Yeah, I'm a size 6, the waifs are a size 0 -- I still think they're cute though, like little dolls. It's the skinny men with lots of muscle I have problems being attracted to :)
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It's all a matter of opinion/tastes of course, but I think the over-obsessing is something that carries into the picture. In high school I never liked the jocks or gymnists, so I think that's where my obsession with fat boys or skinny musicians who didn't work out at all came from. So, it's a little more than being just shallow.
As a raw foodist, I freak when I get under 110 pounds -- I hate the way my butt looks so I start chowing down on the manna bread :)
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I love strength...absolutely love it! The cave-lady in me is totally turned on by a strong man, strong forearms just kill me. And when we're having sex if he is one top of me I can't help but be turned on by rubbing my hands on his pecks and shoulders. I would like him to trim down a bit before building muscle but I'll still like it this way too...just so long as he doesn't go he-man on me!
Oh and I TOTALLY agree with you on the V shape ICK ICK ICK!! I hate hips, guys should not have a sexier belly than a girl, they should look STRONG not like a carved statue.
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I love strength too, I love when a guy picks me up and swings me around. I also like it to hurt a little bit when the guy is on top of me during sex. I like that feeling of vulnerabilty.
Also, what I like about fat guys is that the fat around their bellies make their penises look smaller and I prefer smaller penises. I mean not real small like Sting's 3-incher, but between 6 to 8 inches is perfect for me :)
Ha-ha, yeah, that's a good way to put it -- hips and a too chiseled stomach is way too fem for a guy.
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YES I am totally with you on that. Damn I am a petite girl and I had sex with a guy once that was so painful because he was too big! My abdomen ached for a day after!
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One time I was getting ready to have sex with this guy, and his penis, I swear to god, was almost as big as Long Dong Silver's -- and the head of it was the size of a baseball!!
I said, "You are not sticking that thing in me!"
He ended up marrying a very tall girl -- LOL!
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As long as he is open-minded towards what I'm doing ;)"
You just described your average Scotsman Mary Anne (and that actually IS true!!!)
Scotland has the highest rate of heart disease in Europe....and it's just cause we do the things that make us happy and sod the consequences usually.
I aint no waif, i like a good hearty meal (and I LOVE to cook) and I like to have a beer :-)
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My excersise is wandering the beautiful Scottish countryside...and fishing in it also (I am such a sap!)
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and robert smith is gorgeous.....i think moreso for his face..he has very nice eyes and lips. i also like chubby elvis. and i like skinny guys like john rotten or skinny but slightly buff like deniro in taxi driver.
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One of my favorite skinny guys is Stiv Bators.
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You wouldn't like me though, I'm more on the petite, thin side -- definitely not skinny though. Thinner than most normal people, but not nearly as thin as a movie star ;)
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