here we go again
ok a little venting needed. i have a friend some one i liked for years even shared the bed once we have been close since we worked together. now she went off and met some dude from another country. i have no issues with that if the dude made her happy i was good with it. well he didn't he treated her like crap on his shoe. so for years i would hear the horror stories of what he did and was doing how soon as he got his green card he dumped her until he found out that he had to stay with her a certain time before the green card let him stay in the states. anyway, home boy leaves her she files for divorce and starts i thought trying to get her life back on track. now i lose contact with her but the next thing i hear is she has met some dude from cypress. on line no less never met the boy in person but i just got a message she is in love with this guy half her age and is planing to go over there and meet him marry him and bring him back to the u.s.a. my mind is warped partly wondering if she wants a guy so bad why not hook up with the one who has been the emotional flood gate? instead of some random online in another country she'll have to go through all that bullshit again to get him here and in hopes he'll treat her right. i am like Pontius Pilate i am going to get a tub and wash my hands in front of the crowd. and say I am innocent of this woman's blood; see to that yourselves. she sits wondering why all her friends and family are set against this and i wonder why i care? yeah we were friend even lovers once and i have watched her get trashed over and over with nothing i can do i think there comes a time when it's like a lame horse walk over and shoot it in the head end the suffering. so that is what i am going to do end this tired of the hassles. so blocking and losing info i will not be the teddy bear for this one she's on her own just hope this dude treats her right is all i can do. oh well back to the grind peace.