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[mara_jade3]

Okay, call me stupid. I really am. Why did I do it? Plain and simple curiousity, well now I'm about to have a flipping anxiety attack over it! No words can describe how I'm feeling, but it just plain hurts. I made the mistake of reading the comments in someone's journal. I know I shouldn't have, but I wondered what it was that could be making him

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[bloomin_orli]

Okay, I've been privvy to this information for some time now and quite honestly, it's getting old. While getting over someone is a hard thing to do, it's been enough time that you should have moved on. You've found someone else. You profess your love for this other person, then shun him for your feelings towards this other. Get over it. He's not yours anymore. He's moved on, and you know? It really doesn't matter how hurt you are by it, because the man is entitled to have a life. He is entitled to be happy and if you love him as much as you claim, you would let him be so. Also, you're forgetting one simple thing. This man has found the woman that he loved long before he knew you existed. He found the mother of his children. That can not easily be forgotten, nor should it be. Stop making this about your feelings, and consider his for once. Because in the end, all you will succeed in doing is driving a wedge between those you claim to care for and yourself.

I am not taking one side over the other, I'm just not understanding why there's all this pining for a man who so obviously has made it clear that it is over, that it will never be. You need to find your own happiness, and not live in the past. Not dwell on what you once had, but what you are about to have. There is nothing more I can say on this. Other than you need to get over it. Move on and be happy. Without him. And let him be happy with who he chooses as his mate.

[april_chantia]

While there are some points that I agree with Mr. Bloom, that is very harsh.
But I must say, you speak your mind.. you always have and that is a wonderful thing to do.. but still.. the words are harsh.

[mara_jade3]

You're right, Alex. I'm sorry. I just needed to write this last night to help myself feel better. I do feel better now. I will let it go. I will cause I'm as tired of it as you all are.