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Sometimes I see a Latina woman that is a little bit older and that smiles really big at me like she is desperate for a man in her life and what I get out of it is that she wants someone to fill a predetermined role in her life so that her friends will shut up that she doesn't have a man. Also, she probably wants help with her bratty children and to pay the bills.
Also, I get the feeling that a lot of middle aged, or older, female attention I get is directed at the fact that I might live someplace nicer than I do. That is, they envision that I have a house and can move right in.
I was at the gym the other day and some lady in her late 40s was commiserating with a lady in her 50s about lack of male attention she gets. I get a lot of grandmas, they are literally grandmas, interested in me when I go to the call center. It is mostly because they all divorced earlier husbands. I guess it is ok that people are so free and easy about divorcing, but the consequence of doing that is loneliness. If I met a middle aged woman that was into reading, writing, Buddhism, and teaching, I'd probably be interested. At least, I'd hope I would be. But, the middle aged, and older, woman that seem interested in me, mostly seem interested in money and materialistic things. Not that that is easy not to be interested in. When I had a car whose engine was about to fall out onto the road, I was deeply interested in getting a better car.
Also, I get the feeling that a lot of middle aged, or older, female attention I get is directed at the fact that I might live someplace nicer than I do. That is, they envision that I have a house and can move right in.
I was at the gym the other day and some lady in her late 40s was commiserating with a lady in her 50s about lack of male attention she gets. I get a lot of grandmas, they are literally grandmas, interested in me when I go to the call center. It is mostly because they all divorced earlier husbands. I guess it is ok that people are so free and easy about divorcing, but the consequence of doing that is loneliness. If I met a middle aged woman that was into reading, writing, Buddhism, and teaching, I'd probably be interested. At least, I'd hope I would be. But, the middle aged, and older, woman that seem interested in me, mostly seem interested in money and materialistic things. Not that that is easy not to be interested in. When I had a car whose engine was about to fall out onto the road, I was deeply interested in getting a better car.