To Kid or Not to Kid. . .That is the question. . .
This weekend was a really good weekend. Tracey miami_princess came home on Saturday morning, though I still feel bad about her and Gabriel (you must read her lj to understand). To make it better Ron surprised me and was home Saturday before 4:15pm and it had been quite awhile since that had happen. I was just so happy. I wanted to jump off the roof of our complex. We sat out on the stoop and talked awhile before we went in and watched the end of the race. After the race Ron and I went to the RibMan to get some ribs and sweet potato pie. OMG those ribs were so good! ! ! To another amazement Ron stayed up past midnight that night. Everything he did Saturday just made my weekend. He got home early, got ribs, and finished the night off with some good sex.
Sunday was pretty good too. I came over to Mom's a couple of times because someone had called right in the middle of something good so once we were done I took a shower and went over to see what was up. It was Tracey who had called me to tell me what Eddy had done and to see if I wanted to go with her and a friend to Islamorada Friday. Of course I want to go to the beach. I watched the race with Ron. Yesterday was a sad day for the Indy Race. Come to find out while doing the practice runs Paul Dana crashed, where he later died at Jackson Hospital. I have never watched the Indy Race but since they were in-town (Homestead-Miami Speedway) Ron and I kept switching the channel from Nascar to Indy. After the race Ron and I went and ran some errands. We had to go to Wal-Mart and one of the front desk clerks lady said "we just lost another one of our men." Pertaining to Ron and I. We then went to Golden Corral to eat. The couple (black) next to us kept giving us dirty looks; the female gave Ron dirty looks while her baby's daddy was giving me dirty looks. I really wish people would stop looking at us like that. I mean come on if you think about it we all came from Adam and Eve. Plus I thought it is what inside that counts not their color. For those who don't know I am white and Ron is Bohemian (black). Yesterday I just want to slap some people. Ron and I then went grocery shopping. Because of my cold my head kept spinning and I felt and thought I was going to past-out. So we hurried up so that I could rest.
I went to the doctor this morning because of yesterday and also I can't take the coughing anymore. So she gave me medicine and told me that the reason why I felt like I was going to past out was because of how bad my cold is and that I need to rest. I told her that is all I have done since I became sick, but she said I need more rest. So that is my plan. To stay in bed til my cold is gone.
You are probably wondering why I titled this To Kid Or Not To Kid. . .That is the Question. . . Well lately (for at least a week now) I have been thinking about the issue of kids and what not. I really want a kid but I don't know what everyone else (my extended family) will say or think. But what are you to do if you love someone as much as I love Ron? Yeah I could wait but I really don't want to have kids after I have turn 28. I have heard and learn that one starts to lose their energy after 28 years old. I don't want to inactive if I have kids. So I have been kicking around the idea of having kids. I have talked to Ron on a serious note about this and asked him how he really feels about me and everything. He basically assured them that if we do this he is not going to leave me and what not. I know that we will be able to financially support a kid. So rightnow I am really thinking of is this what I want to do. I mean I miss sitting Adrian and I miss his brother. I know I would make a great mother. . .I mean I love being around kids and everything.
Ok everyone what is your in-point about when is the right time to have a kid and what not?
Staying Crunked
MalFutureMD
~Mal~
Sunday was pretty good too. I came over to Mom's a couple of times because someone had called right in the middle of something good so once we were done I took a shower and went over to see what was up. It was Tracey who had called me to tell me what Eddy had done and to see if I wanted to go with her and a friend to Islamorada Friday. Of course I want to go to the beach. I watched the race with Ron. Yesterday was a sad day for the Indy Race. Come to find out while doing the practice runs Paul Dana crashed, where he later died at Jackson Hospital. I have never watched the Indy Race but since they were in-town (Homestead-Miami Speedway) Ron and I kept switching the channel from Nascar to Indy. After the race Ron and I went and ran some errands. We had to go to Wal-Mart and one of the front desk clerks lady said "we just lost another one of our men." Pertaining to Ron and I. We then went to Golden Corral to eat. The couple (black) next to us kept giving us dirty looks; the female gave Ron dirty looks while her baby's daddy was giving me dirty looks. I really wish people would stop looking at us like that. I mean come on if you think about it we all came from Adam and Eve. Plus I thought it is what inside that counts not their color. For those who don't know I am white and Ron is Bohemian (black). Yesterday I just want to slap some people. Ron and I then went grocery shopping. Because of my cold my head kept spinning and I felt and thought I was going to past-out. So we hurried up so that I could rest.
I went to the doctor this morning because of yesterday and also I can't take the coughing anymore. So she gave me medicine and told me that the reason why I felt like I was going to past out was because of how bad my cold is and that I need to rest. I told her that is all I have done since I became sick, but she said I need more rest. So that is my plan. To stay in bed til my cold is gone.
You are probably wondering why I titled this To Kid Or Not To Kid. . .That is the Question. . . Well lately (for at least a week now) I have been thinking about the issue of kids and what not. I really want a kid but I don't know what everyone else (my extended family) will say or think. But what are you to do if you love someone as much as I love Ron? Yeah I could wait but I really don't want to have kids after I have turn 28. I have heard and learn that one starts to lose their energy after 28 years old. I don't want to inactive if I have kids. So I have been kicking around the idea of having kids. I have talked to Ron on a serious note about this and asked him how he really feels about me and everything. He basically assured them that if we do this he is not going to leave me and what not. I know that we will be able to financially support a kid. So rightnow I am really thinking of is this what I want to do. I mean I miss sitting Adrian and I miss his brother. I know I would make a great mother. . .I mean I love being around kids and everything.
Ok everyone what is your in-point about when is the right time to have a kid and what not?
Staying Crunked
MalFutureMD
~Mal~