Ok...I'm going to start off at the first paragraph. Don't ya just love those small little things that make you smile without knowing it? I went through the same problem a while back. Its nice knowing someone cares. I got Jason to do the small little things again when I started doing small little things for him. It took him a while to come around but it worked. As for the age...me and jason have an eight year difference so i can totally relate to that. Sometimes it hits you and you wonder if your really right for that person because you think well when im 22 hes going to be 30 and he will probably die way before you but I think about how loving he is, and something makes you be with him now then why would age matter. Plus I fought so hard to be with him. As for the arguement with your dad, I hope things get better. I never like argueing cause knowing that something could happen and those could be your last words to him. Plus I don't have a dad technically...well he doesn't know I exist but yea. I'm sorry about that cancer stuff...but at least you get great news. Lastly, I am so glad that you are getting the guy that raped/molested you. I made the mistake of keeping it a secret because he threatened to kill the only family I have left. Plus I was only 5, so I was barely learning the meaning of right and wrong. What makes it worse is that I may never be able to have kids. But it makes me happy to know someone is actually going after someone like that. I hope he gets what he deserves. Devanee
First off thank you for you advice; especially with the dating situation. Today my Dad and I made up and cleared some things up. So we are back on talking terms. Now about my rapist/molester I reported it in October of 2002 and it finally went to court in February of 2004. He was found guilty on all 3 counts and was sentence 28 years with the just to get out on probation in 22 years. I did try to sue him in past but he put everything he owned in someone else's name. I am going to try and sue again because he is stupid enough to put his things back in his name. I am sorry that it happened to you too. I too may not be able to have kids because of what he did and because the cancer that he caused me to get can ruin my chances too. But that is why I have my best friend to be a serrogate mom and / or I just may adopt. ~Mal~
As for the arguement with your dad, I hope things get better. I never like argueing cause knowing that something could happen and those could be your last words to him. Plus I don't have a dad technically...well he doesn't know I exist but yea.
I'm sorry about that cancer stuff...but at least you get great news.
Lastly, I am so glad that you are getting the guy that raped/molested you. I made the mistake of keeping it a secret because he threatened to kill the only family I have left. Plus I was only 5, so I was barely learning the meaning of right and wrong. What makes it worse is that I may never be able to have kids. But it makes me happy to know someone is actually going after someone like that. I hope he gets what he deserves.
Devanee
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