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skjdfgshsdfkjgsdg big opportunity. Kinda. I think. So my little sister really doesn't want to go to the Decemberists concert on the 28th so we have an extra ticket, so my mom was like hey since your sister's bringing her boyfriend wanna bring someone so I was like hmmm I don't think any of my friends like the Decemberists but then I remembered HOMG IT'S IAN'S FAVORITE BAND except I don't know if I should invite him or not. So I'm just going to make a pro/con list here.
CONS
Hard time asking him (ie can't run fast enough to catch him)
Awkward time asking him
[Possible] awkward car ride
[Possible] awkward concert
[Possible] awkward car ride back
[Possible] awkward time at school the next week
The car ride'd be awkward because it would be my sister and her boyfriend probably making out in the backseat, then me and Ian probably not knowing what to do the entire time, and then my parents probably doing really embarrassing stuff. And I'm afraid if we're too awkward then we won't be able to properly enjoy the concert, which would be a damn shame. And then at school it could either turn into some awesome friendship or it would still be the same awkward running away shit.
PROS
Get to spend time with him
Shared experience, which could make for inside jokes
[Possible] really run car ride
[Possible] he starts to talk to me at school and we become actual friends and then he falls in love with me and everything's perfect
So no matter what would happen with the pros, at least I would get to be with him for those couples hours. And after that date I'd know what not to do and actually talk this time. And if we did it right, the car ride might actually not be awkward. And best case scenario he talks to me at school. That would kind of make my life.
And I ran into a [girl] friend of his at the mall today, aaand after a very awkward introduction ("Um, hi, you're friends with Ian right?" "Uh, yeah" "Uhhhh yeah so I kind of like him..") she said that she would tell him to stop running away and she also confirmed that he's not dating this whore from his camp that I stalk know he's friends with. So that's good. I think.
CONS
Hard time asking him (ie can't run fast enough to catch him)
Awkward time asking him
[Possible] awkward car ride
[Possible] awkward concert
[Possible] awkward car ride back
[Possible] awkward time at school the next week
The car ride'd be awkward because it would be my sister and her boyfriend probably making out in the backseat, then me and Ian probably not knowing what to do the entire time, and then my parents probably doing really embarrassing stuff. And I'm afraid if we're too awkward then we won't be able to properly enjoy the concert, which would be a damn shame. And then at school it could either turn into some awesome friendship or it would still be the same awkward running away shit.
PROS
Get to spend time with him
Shared experience, which could make for inside jokes
[Possible] really run car ride
[Possible] he starts to talk to me at school and we become actual friends and then he falls in love with me and everything's perfect
So no matter what would happen with the pros, at least I would get to be with him for those couples hours. And after that date I'd know what not to do and actually talk this time. And if we did it right, the car ride might actually not be awkward. And best case scenario he talks to me at school. That would kind of make my life.
And I ran into a [girl] friend of his at the mall today, aaand after a very awkward introduction ("Um, hi, you're friends with Ian right?" "Uh, yeah" "Uhhhh yeah so I kind of like him..") she said that she would tell him to stop running away and she also confirmed that he's not dating this whore from his camp that I stalk know he's friends with. So that's good. I think.