Ridiculous Weekend
This is a looooong ass post so get your drinks and snacks now.....
SO this all started about a week ago. I met this guy. Thought said guy was just the bees knees. Oh boy was I ever WRONG. So we started off like an explosion and then decided to be super casual and just chill, but we weren't friends and weren't exactly dating. Confusing right? So I saw him all of like 20 minutes the rest of the week after that conversation. Well I had decided that I didn't like this status and that maybe we should just be friends. So I wasn't going to get to see him the whole weekend because he had family stuff and would be with them. Well he had time to go to a party friday night and this is where it gets shady and what not. So I didn't go because I don't really like the girl who's bday it was. Plus I sure didn't want to spend a tank of gas going to van buren and back. so I stayed home. Well the next morning I get to hear about what happened at the party. My source will remain nameless because as you will find out people are flipping the fuck out about this. So there was a hot tub involved and truth or dare and let's just say he acted like a man slut. I don't care if it was a game and other people were doing it to and there was alcohol involved. To me those are not legitimate excuses. Especially when I found out how cuddly he was with someone. So at this point I am not a happy camper. I don't really fucking care if we were casual that does not excuse what he did. AT ALL. If that was what he wanted to do he should have broken things off with me first and then slutted himself out. So at this point I have decided that things are done between us. I don't even want to see him or party girl. Apparently she started this whole thing and she knew that something was going on between me and said boy. I also found out there was some double seduction going on between party girl and her roommate. Party girl was going after the boys best bud and her roommate was going after the boy. So there was that to deal with to and that really was the straw that broke the camels back.So the he in question was suppose to have family obligations this entire weekend. I wasn't going to get to see him at all. Come to find he was hanging out at the apartment of party girl. So I called him to see what he was up to and to see if he would be straight with me about what had happened the night before and if he would tell me he was going over to this girl's house. Well he calls me back 30 minutes later after I have texted the girl to ask her if I could come over. My purpose to going over would be to tell him to go to hell. So we start talking very casual and I ask him how his weekend is going and if he could come see me tomorrow and then about the party. Well he gives me very broad details about it and so at that point I had decided he was a lying prick and was so ready to tell him off. He gets out of ear shot from his cousin and then says well I don't know how to say this without hurting your feelings...You know how we said we were gonna cool it? Well I just don't think that we have to which I respond really? cos to me only seeing for about 20 minutes the whole week after that conversation seems like cooling it to me but continue...well I just don't think it's gonna work out between us. You know I just didn't want feelings to get involved(I told him mine did so it was a little late for that) and I just don't want you to think I am an asshole or anything like that and blah blah. I then told him..it's funny you are telling me this because this is the conversation I wanted to have with you tomorrow in person like an adult...especially after I found out what
happened last night. He got very flustered over this and tried to find out who told me to which I told him I have my sources and I know EVERYTHING. So then I just tried to get
off the phone and told him there was nothing more to say and he said there was. I knew he was about to tell me what was going on between him and party girls roommate. I told
him I knew about that but it was none of my business and he said well I heard you were coming over tonight and I just didn't want things to be akward and you know she's closer
to my age(he's about 2 years younger than me....) and at that point I started seeing red so I don't recall what I said to him but I just know that I told him I had nothing
more to say to him and hung up on his ass. So then about 20 minutes later after I have cried(because ppl actually took the time to go behind my back and stab me not from
real hurt...more rage) the party girl texts me and says well yeah you can come over but he's going to be there. I was already pissed but the fact that she waited til then to
text me and act like she was innocent sent me into a rage.So I called her. I told her and I quote "you can take that innocent attitude and throw it out the window. You knew
regardless of whether or not it was official that something was going on between me and the guy, that I liked him. YOu knew and yet you went behind my back and were sneaky and
caniving(sp?) anyway. YOu are nothing but a two faced backstabbing bitch." she then tried to make excuses but I hung up on her ass too cos I am tired of hearing them from her. I have to say that saying those things to her was probably the most liberating thing I have ever done. Well not to long after my roommate calls me in tears because apparently everyone at the apt. was treating her like trash and saying that she told me what had happened the night before. So I had to then call party girl back and light into her ass about what the fuck she did to my roommate to make her cry and that she needed to go out there and apologize. Oh and while I had been on the phone with my roommate party girl had texted me to tell me that my roommate had been the first one to kiss him, to try and cover her ass. So I am telling her how my roommate has never done anything to any of them and how can they treat her like this when she has never been anything but a great friend to them(side note my roommate really is like the awesomest and sweetest and best person I have ever met and I hadn't thought I could've gotten anymore furious until she called me about that) and that they needed to leave her out of it. Party girl then said see I don't know why you are mad at me. THis is between you and boy and I didn't do anything. If he hadn't had the balls to tell you about what happened we would have to which I replied I really don't believe a word that is coming out of your mouth. She then hung up on me(how original). I talked to some other people because apparently it was a big damn deal that I knew what had happened(I won't say exactly what I know because there are people involved that I am not going to get in trouble) and they are scrambling to try and find out who told me. I knew everyone at that party to it could have been any number of people but no one will say who told me cos they don't want anyone pissed off at them and I will take it to my grave cos I don't want to get anyone in trouble. Nothing much more interesting happened after that. I had to drive around for a while to calm down because my hands were shaking and I was seeing red still. So then I got to go to a really fun party and see someone amazing(yes Krista you are amazing) and that really helped to calm me down. So That is the story. I really wasn't kidding when I said long and ridiculous. The fact that some people went to the trouble to be sneaky and shady like that is beyond me. I mean I thought people were adults and that we were in college but noooooooooo. I was so wrong. But it's ok because now I know who my real friends and will get to spend my last year with the people that matter and won't waste my time on trash. I am not so much at party girls roommate because I think she didn't know something was going on(though you would have to be an idiot not to) because I think the boy told her so buuuuut party girl knew what was going on and knew that when she pushed them together so really she and boy are trash in my book and I will be happy never talking to them again. I really hope they have enough sense not to talk to me come tuesday because if they do I will light them up like it's the 4th O' July. I really am not about to hold anything back but I will not go out of my way just to say it. So I kinda hope that he tries to talk to me because I really didn;t get to say much to him and boy do I have a lot to say to him. really I don't know why people felt they had to sneak around me or why he felt he had to hide things from me. I mean of course I wasn't gonna be just peachy keen fine with it but that just tells me there real colors that they felt they had to do that instead of being honest with me. It would have saved them a lot of trouble and I probably wouldn't have said a good portion of what I said to some people. But I guess that might have taken some of the fun out of it for me right?
*this is my disclaimer to anyone who reads this. At this point I don't really care what people say about me because of the things that I have said. I don't regret any of the opinions I have expressed about people. This is how I feel and if you don't like then you shouldn't have been reading this in the first place.
SO this all started about a week ago. I met this guy. Thought said guy was just the bees knees. Oh boy was I ever WRONG. So we started off like an explosion and then decided to be super casual and just chill, but we weren't friends and weren't exactly dating. Confusing right? So I saw him all of like 20 minutes the rest of the week after that conversation. Well I had decided that I didn't like this status and that maybe we should just be friends. So I wasn't going to get to see him the whole weekend because he had family stuff and would be with them. Well he had time to go to a party friday night and this is where it gets shady and what not. So I didn't go because I don't really like the girl who's bday it was. Plus I sure didn't want to spend a tank of gas going to van buren and back. so I stayed home. Well the next morning I get to hear about what happened at the party. My source will remain nameless because as you will find out people are flipping the fuck out about this. So there was a hot tub involved and truth or dare and let's just say he acted like a man slut. I don't care if it was a game and other people were doing it to and there was alcohol involved. To me those are not legitimate excuses. Especially when I found out how cuddly he was with someone. So at this point I am not a happy camper. I don't really fucking care if we were casual that does not excuse what he did. AT ALL. If that was what he wanted to do he should have broken things off with me first and then slutted himself out. So at this point I have decided that things are done between us. I don't even want to see him or party girl. Apparently she started this whole thing and she knew that something was going on between me and said boy. I also found out there was some double seduction going on between party girl and her roommate. Party girl was going after the boys best bud and her roommate was going after the boy. So there was that to deal with to and that really was the straw that broke the camels back.So the he in question was suppose to have family obligations this entire weekend. I wasn't going to get to see him at all. Come to find he was hanging out at the apartment of party girl. So I called him to see what he was up to and to see if he would be straight with me about what had happened the night before and if he would tell me he was going over to this girl's house. Well he calls me back 30 minutes later after I have texted the girl to ask her if I could come over. My purpose to going over would be to tell him to go to hell. So we start talking very casual and I ask him how his weekend is going and if he could come see me tomorrow and then about the party. Well he gives me very broad details about it and so at that point I had decided he was a lying prick and was so ready to tell him off. He gets out of ear shot from his cousin and then says well I don't know how to say this without hurting your feelings...You know how we said we were gonna cool it? Well I just don't think that we have to which I respond really? cos to me only seeing for about 20 minutes the whole week after that conversation seems like cooling it to me but continue...well I just don't think it's gonna work out between us. You know I just didn't want feelings to get involved(I told him mine did so it was a little late for that) and I just don't want you to think I am an asshole or anything like that and blah blah. I then told him..it's funny you are telling me this because this is the conversation I wanted to have with you tomorrow in person like an adult...especially after I found out what
happened last night. He got very flustered over this and tried to find out who told me to which I told him I have my sources and I know EVERYTHING. So then I just tried to get
off the phone and told him there was nothing more to say and he said there was. I knew he was about to tell me what was going on between him and party girls roommate. I told
him I knew about that but it was none of my business and he said well I heard you were coming over tonight and I just didn't want things to be akward and you know she's closer
to my age(he's about 2 years younger than me....) and at that point I started seeing red so I don't recall what I said to him but I just know that I told him I had nothing
more to say to him and hung up on his ass. So then about 20 minutes later after I have cried(because ppl actually took the time to go behind my back and stab me not from
real hurt...more rage) the party girl texts me and says well yeah you can come over but he's going to be there. I was already pissed but the fact that she waited til then to
text me and act like she was innocent sent me into a rage.So I called her. I told her and I quote "you can take that innocent attitude and throw it out the window. You knew
regardless of whether or not it was official that something was going on between me and the guy, that I liked him. YOu knew and yet you went behind my back and were sneaky and
caniving(sp?) anyway. YOu are nothing but a two faced backstabbing bitch." she then tried to make excuses but I hung up on her ass too cos I am tired of hearing them from her. I have to say that saying those things to her was probably the most liberating thing I have ever done. Well not to long after my roommate calls me in tears because apparently everyone at the apt. was treating her like trash and saying that she told me what had happened the night before. So I had to then call party girl back and light into her ass about what the fuck she did to my roommate to make her cry and that she needed to go out there and apologize. Oh and while I had been on the phone with my roommate party girl had texted me to tell me that my roommate had been the first one to kiss him, to try and cover her ass. So I am telling her how my roommate has never done anything to any of them and how can they treat her like this when she has never been anything but a great friend to them(side note my roommate really is like the awesomest and sweetest and best person I have ever met and I hadn't thought I could've gotten anymore furious until she called me about that) and that they needed to leave her out of it. Party girl then said see I don't know why you are mad at me. THis is between you and boy and I didn't do anything. If he hadn't had the balls to tell you about what happened we would have to which I replied I really don't believe a word that is coming out of your mouth. She then hung up on me(how original). I talked to some other people because apparently it was a big damn deal that I knew what had happened(I won't say exactly what I know because there are people involved that I am not going to get in trouble) and they are scrambling to try and find out who told me. I knew everyone at that party to it could have been any number of people but no one will say who told me cos they don't want anyone pissed off at them and I will take it to my grave cos I don't want to get anyone in trouble. Nothing much more interesting happened after that. I had to drive around for a while to calm down because my hands were shaking and I was seeing red still. So then I got to go to a really fun party and see someone amazing(yes Krista you are amazing) and that really helped to calm me down. So That is the story. I really wasn't kidding when I said long and ridiculous. The fact that some people went to the trouble to be sneaky and shady like that is beyond me. I mean I thought people were adults and that we were in college but noooooooooo. I was so wrong. But it's ok because now I know who my real friends and will get to spend my last year with the people that matter and won't waste my time on trash. I am not so much at party girls roommate because I think she didn't know something was going on(though you would have to be an idiot not to) because I think the boy told her so buuuuut party girl knew what was going on and knew that when she pushed them together so really she and boy are trash in my book and I will be happy never talking to them again. I really hope they have enough sense not to talk to me come tuesday because if they do I will light them up like it's the 4th O' July. I really am not about to hold anything back but I will not go out of my way just to say it. So I kinda hope that he tries to talk to me because I really didn;t get to say much to him and boy do I have a lot to say to him. really I don't know why people felt they had to sneak around me or why he felt he had to hide things from me. I mean of course I wasn't gonna be just peachy keen fine with it but that just tells me there real colors that they felt they had to do that instead of being honest with me. It would have saved them a lot of trouble and I probably wouldn't have said a good portion of what I said to some people. But I guess that might have taken some of the fun out of it for me right?
*this is my disclaimer to anyone who reads this. At this point I don't really care what people say about me because of the things that I have said. I don't regret any of the opinions I have expressed about people. This is how I feel and if you don't like then you shouldn't have been reading this in the first place.