Opinions requested - HONEST opinions

[maeveshne]

 If you have a significant other in your life who not only does not share your love for being a rennie, but seems to want to take you away from being a rennie, what would you do

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[the_lady_rissa]

Wow....just wow....My initial reaction is to say "Fuck 'em and Chuck'em.", But Im pretty militant about being accepted for exactly who and what I am and if someone doesnt like it then dont let the door hit ya where the Good Goddess split ya. I have some intrests John doesnt share a vice versa. Is this worth the effort for couples counseling? If not, I'd say let it go and get a room mate if you have to. It just doesnt sound like a happy-making relationship. It sounds like he's possesive and wants to isolate you, neither of which are good signs.

[hockeycat]

I hate to say it, babe, but if he's being this controlling already, it sure as heck won't get any better, and will most likely get much worse.

Knowing how hard it is, I still say throw his @$$ out...

(also, consider putting all your posts under friends-only security, to help protect yourself from him a bit more
http://www.livejournal.com/support/faqbrowse.bml?faqid=120)

[ironfinch]

off point, but did you not tell me you had an LJ. Bad Kimber. I have added you now that I know you have one, add back if you want to read.

[maeveshne]

All things considered, I had no clue you had an LJ ;p So now you know.

*hugs*

[ironfinch]

yeah, I got it in 1999 late or early 2000. Not sure which, but at least 7 years ago if not 8.

[ironfinch]

yeah, I got it in 1999 late or early 2000. Not sure which, but at least 7 years ago if not 8.

Oh dam, I just checked and it was late 2002. I really thought it was longer...grrrrr