The insanity of liars.
I's amazing to me how people turn around and just start lying about me. Recall the owner of that cafe - who just went in and started lying to his employees: that I planned to stay until 4:pm, when I never stayed even an hour there, each time. More like 1/2 hour each time. The latest I ever stayed was about 1:pm. Confiding to the employee that I was strange - and I forget what else. This is what narcissists do. Including my sister, who goes around convincing people not to talk to me, telling people I am this or that. I don't even know what lies she tells, because I don't bother following up on any of it. But, it's just crazy. Here's a 40 year old woman I added because I felt sorry for her. All she did, when I knew her, was post all this stuff about Disney movies, fantasies, etc. But, she was disabled, and in pain, and alone - so I thought we could relate. But, seriously, look what I discovered - [The slanderous comment was taken down]. - I said I was going to chop her fingers off?! My god! It really does seem like people are getting possessed, and so they feel compelled to destroy me, who is actually a pretty good person. I don't understand it at all. Why? What is the point of it? How this person could see, cutters_forum, as my way of mocking her is beyond me. You spend all your time and energy trying to be helpful and respectful to people, and some people just turn into rabid, back-stabbing monsters for no known reason. (That's a 180 re: Disney fantasies, isn't it, lol?) And, the thing is, other people don't bother to investigate, they just go ahead and believe the liar. Similar to the problem of people turning a blind eye, just because it's easier to.