I'm am so flippin' pissed!!
If my neighbor wasn't pregnant I swear I would smack her around.
I know I've mentioned her before.. she's due at the same time I would have been if I wouldn't have had a m/c. She's been popping pills, smoking weed, and Lord knows what else since before the pregnancy and hasn't slowed down at all.
Anyway, her little girl came over this afternoon about 2 seconds after we pulled up from the Y and running errands. She came into play and since we were eating lunch late I asked if she was hungry because I would make her something. She said no, she had already eaten breakfast and lunch. I said ok, got the kids all settled around the table, then sat down here to check my e-mail and eat my lunch.
She walks over to me and this is our conversation:
Audrey:"I made me and JayJay (her 14month old baby brother) breakfast and lunch today."
Me: "Wow! You did? That's awesome you were helping mommy out."
Audrey:"No, mommy was asleep."
Me:"Oh she was? Did she lay down on the couch for a little bit?"
A:"No, she was in her room sleeping all morning and wouldn't get up."
Me:"Ohhh.... well what did you make for you and JayJay?"
A:"A sandwich and a poptart."
Me:"Yummy! Where did JayJay eat his food? In his highchair?" (I'm still hoping I'm misunderstanding cause there is no way she can get him in the highchair so if he ate there, it meant mom was around)
A:"On the floor. And I gave him a piece of my chocolate, too."
Me:"You are a great big sister Audrey!"
She smiled and walked back to the table and asked if Grace was done eating yet. She said yes and they ran off to play in the back room.
I am absolutely sickened. That freaking baby has been to the hospital 2 times for choking on shit. DCF has been called on her God knows how many times. I am just so pissed and I don't know what to do. I'm not going to confront her dumbass. I've confronted her on shit before and she always blows smoke up my ass and it just pisses me off more. Her husband is a hard worker, he busts his ass every day roofing and comes home to cook and clean and take care of the kids cause she doesn't do shit. I can tell him, but he knows how she is, he lives with her, so what good will it do?