Contemplation of Sexuality

[lydiaveldt]

I am sitting here looking out the window as miryad of students troll by on thier way (presumtion) to class. It is warm here and I have no real complaints for myself and I begin to think about sex. I know why would I think about sex. First and explanation of how it is my thoughts turned toward sex

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[sexysadie6666]

Hmmm.... There's lots I could say on this subject but I doubt half of it is going to come out right anyhow. I'll just go ahead and do my best. To me, sex is something best shared between people who already have a connection. Note that I did not say love, but I do think sex is better when there is genuine caring and attraction involved. I've had sex with more people than I'd like to admit and sadly I can only say that 2 of them were worth it. That is not to say that sex without attachment is not pleasurable, but to me it is lacking those things which make sex worthwhile. For me, sex is not a means to an end, and by that I mean that the goal is not really orgasm. This may be somewhat influenced by the fact that I never do, but regardless the goal is in the act of sex itself. If all I wanted was an orgasm, I'd do it myself and I'd do it a hell of a lot more often :) That being said, I hope that nobody will ever hold that against me. I know that there is something to be said for that moment when both bodies are so perfectly insync. In all honesty I do sometimes get upset when sex is had but an orgasm from both sides is conspicuously absent. I think that's more a product of society's view on sex though.
Back to the idea of connection and meaningfullness during sex. During sex there is of course the actual act of intercourse which is all well and good in itself. But one of the things that I like most is the freedom and comfortablity during sex, something that's much harder to find than a good lay. Like most people, I'm sure I am fairly ridiculous when having sex. I make odd faces, bizarre sounds issue from my body, and there is virtually no way to disguise all the bodily imperfections you can when wearing clothes or even while being naked and lying still. With all of these hang ups it's no wonder people turn to alcohol before getting their freak on. But when you're truly comfortable with someone you can know how stupid you look and you can let loose with it anyway. To me that's awesome and it's something that makes sex worth waiting for.
Other things to consider about sex, going beyond intercourse. Good sex requires a certain level of intimacy that cannot be reached simply by letting someone stick their cock in your cunt. Touching, caressing, and kissing go a long way to making sex all that it should be. It's one thing to feel someone's body inside yours, it's another to feel the rest of their body while he's inside you. The strength of the body, the way it fits together, the length of it, the feel of the skin, there are too many aspects to consider. Instead you become wrapped in it. The sound of his breathing the touch of his breath on your skin. So many sensations all wrapped up into an all encompassing moment of lust, pleasure, desire, fulfillment, etc. This category also includes the act of oral sex which, despite public opinion, I believe to be more intimate than intercourse. I will hold my comments on the joys of oral sex because I fear I'm at risk of turning this into a soft porn story. Most of the people who read this already know my feelings on this subject anyhow.
Although you seem perfectly capable of posting this then heading off to class, I find that writing of these things has sent my mind into a whirlwind of sexual thoughts, fantasies, and desires. So here is where this will end and my thoughts on the rest of it will go unknown.