No one needs to feel alone but no one needs to feel like they need to be loved all the time
-grumbleness- I know, I know I just wish people would stop hinting that "oh well find you someone" or "I bet he's cute" and then eye me. I can handle myself and have been single for practically 3 years... I am still alive aren't I? I don't see why people use a bf or gf to define how happy someone is. I wouldn't be bothered so much by the fact that I was single if other people didn't make it seem like such a big deal... I am waiting for the right guy and you all should know that I am cautious and picky. I don't really give a damn if YOU think I should just give some guy a chance even if I don't like him yet.
IT IS MY LIFE, what I do will cause effects and I am ready for them. I will take responsibility. If I am sad about not having a bf I will do what I want about it. I will not be like "oh you’re nice, let's date even though I have no idea who you are". It takes trust and comfort to be able to date someone in my case and until I find that I am not just going out and finding "some" guy to date. Anyone who knows me well enough should know that I won't take w/e I can get; I will take what is best for me. It is not right to date people when you will prolly only break their heart when you realize that you don't like them. I would rather be safe then rush into a blind relation.... so it is nice to know some are concerned, but at the same I time I kinda just wanna get somewhere on my own.
I don't want to have to bribe a guy into dating; I want him to ACTUALLY want to be with me. So I WILL wait, it doesn't mean I will stop looking around for a nice guy, but I am still naive about dating, so give me room to breath... having a bf would be nice, to feel loved and be able to talk openly about anything and spend time just together. That would make everyday easier- but I can't just pretend that I care about someone for that comfort. I will find it eventually, no rush needed.
IT IS MY LIFE, what I do will cause effects and I am ready for them. I will take responsibility. If I am sad about not having a bf I will do what I want about it. I will not be like "oh you’re nice, let's date even though I have no idea who you are". It takes trust and comfort to be able to date someone in my case and until I find that I am not just going out and finding "some" guy to date. Anyone who knows me well enough should know that I won't take w/e I can get; I will take what is best for me. It is not right to date people when you will prolly only break their heart when you realize that you don't like them. I would rather be safe then rush into a blind relation.... so it is nice to know some are concerned, but at the same I time I kinda just wanna get somewhere on my own.
I don't want to have to bribe a guy into dating; I want him to ACTUALLY want to be with me. So I WILL wait, it doesn't mean I will stop looking around for a nice guy, but I am still naive about dating, so give me room to breath... having a bf would be nice, to feel loved and be able to talk openly about anything and spend time just together. That would make everyday easier- but I can't just pretend that I care about someone for that comfort. I will find it eventually, no rush needed.