Just another Tuesday is all....
I haven’t had much to say as of late. Nothing really fun and exciting has been going on lately….
School is good. I could only take a Saturday class, which I do not like because it cuts into my weekend activities. If I want to go away, I have to wait until Saturday after class to go anywhere and quite frankly if I go out on a Friday night, I have to relatively behave myself. Which we all know, I don’t like behaving.
This Thursday, I am going to meet up with a friend I have not seen in over seven years. Hilda and I just lost touch. She is a great girl…she was married to a friend of mine. She and her ex husband, a few other friends all coupled and I would get together and have dinner parties and such. It was fun. As life moves on you just sometimes lose touch or commonalities. I think I just had to move forward with my life….my gay life. I was comfortable for a very long time hanging with my straight friends and not making a life with other gay men. I was so busy with life…work and raising my nephews, and caring for my parents that I did not date nor did I care to make new friends. And one day I decided to change that. I was bored with the monotony of it all. I started going out to the gay bars…meeting people which was not all that easy. Even to this day, I still feel it is difficult to meet people that I have things in common with. I am not all that creative or artistic, and I am not into video games or comics. I am not trying to stereotype, but it is what it is. So anyhow, back to Hilda. I do hope we still have things in common…she was someone special….she reminds me of a Betty Paige.
The only thing that is also going on is that I am in some need of some high maintenance stuff this weekend. My hair has grown out some and I am in need of a haircut. See for yourself:
Now the question is do I go really short again, or just get a trim and let it grow out some more? My friend wants to add some color and let it grow out. But if I go with him I have to drive out to Huntington Beach. If I go with the barber in WeHo...I get it cut short and can get a shave and some beard manscaping. Decisions...decisions.
All I know is that I want the weekend to get here already. Daddy needs some me time. And that shall involve a mani/pedi, facial, and some retail therapy.
Thats all for now.