May 23, 2003 09:13
no one has forgotten that you paid me $60 to begin with (but you also moved in half a month early with NO charge) and i have, as promised, deducted that from your bills this month.
you still HAVE NOT replaced the food you have eaten and i would appreciate you not pretending that you have, i bought when you move in and you ate in the first week a MONTH'S worth of food, YAY you bought turkey and your mom donated some food (the pork chops and a snack bag of teddy grahams are what i ate of that).
regardless of your cravings or if i had another pack, you asked me for a cigg, i said NO, that i did not have money to buy more and that i could not afford to support my own bad habit, much less anyone else's. yes you gave me a pack, but that was not at all the point to begin with and you know it.
tim did fix my car, yes. i did not take you back out job hunting because it was almost 5 first of all, and 2nd i did not and do not have the money for gas to help get you a job. no one helped me, yes i have a car, and after 23 years of being on foot i think i earned it, BEING AS IT IS PAID OFF AND MINE!!!! and, as if i need to defend myself, tim requested that i not drive my car so much; being as the engine is real fucked up and we cannot afford to fix it right now and useless driving will only worsen the problem, i only drive when i need to.
i told you that scott was going to start cooking the pork chops since drew wasn't there yet. you said ok. then the two of you left before they were done and said that you were "going to eat," never say or imply that we were eating them with out you, YOU FUCKEN LEFT!!!!
i remember quite clearly thanking drew for the food. in case he conveiniently forgot, THANK YOU VERY MUCH DREW FOR COOKING AND CLEANING AND PIZZA!!!!!
never again mention tim "living here for free" because he DOES NOT live here. if he did you would not and he would pay rent. yes, i do have MY boyfriend spend the night in MY bed in MY room in MY apartment, yes my MOTHER knows and no she doesn't mind. (oh yeah, so long as it is being broadcasted who i sleep with, maybe i should let everyone know that i do in fact have sex with my boyfriend and i do in fact enjoy it, but might anyone want to ask "little miss righteous" why the name of the person she was fucking is not the same as the name of the person she was dating?!)
don't forget the dishes you ate mac and cheese on and the burnt pot that you left for me to discover and clean myself. the pot being burnt is not a lesson to be learned on why not to have expensive dishes it is a lesson on allowing irresponsible and inconsiderate people to use said dishes.
i paid for half of the paper and did in fact ask you to give it to me when you were done, when you left, i assumed that meant you were done and so i went and got it, also, you have given everyone permission to go in to check on/play with the momma-cat and her babies... i am sorry that you changed your mind without telling me but still expected me to know. if you are concerned about me going in your room, my last roommates kept the door locked and went in and out the window so it is always an option.
the cablt tv is a required connection for the internet. currently there is no extra charge going to you so it is HALF the bill that you are responsible for, and if you feel the need to point fingers at jyl and tim please don't forget to point at drew!
i did tell you to clean the bathroom! HELLO?! not only earlier that day when you got up but it is something that you agreed to do UPON YOUR MOVING IN!!!!! i am not your mother and i wish not to be treated like it and that means that i should have to remind you NEVER. if you expect me to remind you a billion times to do something then don't say that you wish not to be treated like a child. DUH!!!!
i do recall already talking with you about the money you still owe me, but here we go again - you gave me the $20 you still owed for rent more than a week late, the landlord charges $5 a day for late rent, i charged you an additional $20 for 4 days of that, you still owe me $80 for the utilities which were due on the 10th, i have not charged you any late fees for the utilities but they are around $40 and half of that is another $20 on top of the $100 you owe (if you want me to charge you for those), also you ate $100 worth of food (a month's worth) and i figure the teddy grahams about $0.50 and the pork chop wrapper said $3 ($100 minus $3.50 equals $96.50, if you wish for me too add that on here).
marcy is willing to work with us if and only if we have $200 on tuesday morning. i have already taken on the responsibility for half of that. you knew last week when the money you owe was to be expected. you figure out how to get it. marcy was willing to work with me on my part as long as i got to her the rest of what you owe me. and while this obviously means very little to you, IT IS YOUR RESPONSIBILITY TO GET WHAT YOU OWE ME TO ME BY SAID DATE REGARDLESS OF ANY SITUATION I AM IN WITH MY LANDLORD, I AM YOURS!
don't tell jyl to keep her loud mouth shut about this either, she is defending me and she went to you because i felt like i would be too bitchy or come off as parenting. she is just trying to keep me from being fucked over again.
AND JUST TO REITERATE, IF YOU WISH NOT TO BE PARENTED OR TO BE TREATED FAIRLY AS A ROOMMATE, MAYBE YOU SHOULD THINK TWICE ABOUT HAVING OTHER PEOPLE CLEAN YOUR MESSES, FEED YOU, REMIND YOU REPEATEDLY OF YOUR HOUSEHOLD DUTIES, OR CART YOU AROUND SO AS YOU CAN GET A JOB TO PULL YOUR OWN WEIGHT (which probably still wouldn't happen even if you had a job because it will still be someone else's responsibility to get you bus money or to/from work).
i am sorry if this is bitchy, but this has been coming and could have easily been prevented had you just taken on the responsibilty of and for yourself.