Jul 07, 2022 17:23
Apparently, the issues my mother has are large enough that she's going to be kept at a hospital for a week.
And hearing all these awful things the woman who birthed me is going through and feeling zero fucking sympathy tells me that I've truly separated myself from her emotionally. This gives me hope. I honestly don't care about her anymore.
GOOD.
I DO care about the gigantic mess she's left behind, both literally AND figuratively! My sister is stuck in a cesspool of a house inundated with trash piles and vermin. I've been wanting her to get out of that situation for many years, but my mother was too hard to fight, especially with my aunt Dora on her side! I kept trying to encourage the social workers and providers to turn my mother in for health code and fire code violations so she either HAD to clean up or Erica HAD to leave!
They did not cooperate.
Now what..?
Once the Hoarding Queen is off her throne, shit can finally change!
... here's to hoping!
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