In the end, little has changed. People are busy, and thus it seems like they are distant. But they still think of you fondly, and you have no reason to question their love for you.
Love is like energy. It can not be created nor destroyed. It can change, and move, and become relaxed potential, but it is always there. A few days without hearing someone's voice doesn't mean they care about you less. If things were different, so would that love be. Alas, they are not, and it is nothing you can control. You can smile, knowing that you aren't forgotten, and in many ways are still loved. While it isn't what you want, you are going to have to make it be enough.
You aren't the only one who had their life change. And just because it seems easier for that other person to compensate, doesn't mean in reality that it is. They've just accepted what is real, and are dealing with it the best they can. You will learn to do the same. In time.
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In the end, little has changed. People are busy, and thus it seems like they are distant. But they still think of you fondly, and you have no reason to question their love for you.
Love is like energy. It can not be created nor destroyed. It can change, and move, and become relaxed potential, but it is always there. A few days without hearing someone's voice doesn't mean they care about you less. If things were different, so would that love be. Alas, they are not, and it is nothing you can control. You can smile, knowing that you aren't forgotten, and in many ways are still loved. While it isn't what you want, you are going to have to make it be enough.
You aren't the only one who had their life change. And just because it seems easier for that other person to compensate, doesn't mean in reality that it is. They've just accepted what is real, and are dealing with it the best they can. You will learn to do the same. In time.
*hugs*
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