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One thing I greatly dislike (perhaps hate) is when people make demands of me. Don't tell me what to do, because I will most likely want to do the exact opposite. Just out of spite. Yes, I know it's a fault of mine, but I hate nothing more than the feeling of being tied down by anyone. How I will ever be able to hold a normal relationship, I don't know, but I suppose it will have to be with someone who understands that I like to be free to do anything I want, when I want, and trusts and respects me for it.
Along these lines, I hate being demanded of my time. I will do with my time as I please. Some people may feel that they do not get enough of my time. I do not feel sorry for you. Two days a week is more than I give pretty much anyone in my life, and considering the drastic change that will be from the amount of time spent together in the past, I would pretty much be happy with anything. Most of my best friends don't see me twice a week, with the exception of Ashley, and that is a recent development. You only just moved here, and you already expect me to drop everything and make extra time.
You know who you are: I am so happy that you have moved here. I think it is the best decision you could have made for yourself. You will meet plenty of new people and have plenty of new experiences.. there will be some trials and tribulations, as there always have been. I am sure some days you will be perfectly happy with your decisions, and other days you will want to run right back to where you are most comfortable. But for once, I am truly proud of you, for taking a chance and stepping out of that comfort zone. I know it is tough, but I honestly think you will have better life experiences because of it, and it will give you even more material to write about, which ultimately is what I expect you to do (write the best book of all time.. no pressure). However. This does not mean I can drop everything I have going. I have a routine, one that makes me very happy. I would like to include you in this as much as I possibly can. But that does not mean you are allowed to be mad about how many days you get, or how much time you get.. Sorry for being up front, but you know I always am with you, and you know you make me angry sometimes.
P.S. It would be in your best interests to speak up a little more, that way my friends can see that you are very funny and nice, and not some quiet guy that comes around and drinks beer and doesn't talk.. just an idea, I know it might take some work, but just try..
Along these lines, I hate being demanded of my time. I will do with my time as I please. Some people may feel that they do not get enough of my time. I do not feel sorry for you. Two days a week is more than I give pretty much anyone in my life, and considering the drastic change that will be from the amount of time spent together in the past, I would pretty much be happy with anything. Most of my best friends don't see me twice a week, with the exception of Ashley, and that is a recent development. You only just moved here, and you already expect me to drop everything and make extra time.
You know who you are: I am so happy that you have moved here. I think it is the best decision you could have made for yourself. You will meet plenty of new people and have plenty of new experiences.. there will be some trials and tribulations, as there always have been. I am sure some days you will be perfectly happy with your decisions, and other days you will want to run right back to where you are most comfortable. But for once, I am truly proud of you, for taking a chance and stepping out of that comfort zone. I know it is tough, but I honestly think you will have better life experiences because of it, and it will give you even more material to write about, which ultimately is what I expect you to do (write the best book of all time.. no pressure). However. This does not mean I can drop everything I have going. I have a routine, one that makes me very happy. I would like to include you in this as much as I possibly can. But that does not mean you are allowed to be mad about how many days you get, or how much time you get.. Sorry for being up front, but you know I always am with you, and you know you make me angry sometimes.
P.S. It would be in your best interests to speak up a little more, that way my friends can see that you are very funny and nice, and not some quiet guy that comes around and drinks beer and doesn't talk.. just an idea, I know it might take some work, but just try..