For the record, I was inviting him along with a couple of OTHER people (Evan, Liz, my friend James and his sister Jenn). It was to a restaurant with Liz's parents there. Sheesh, you love to jump to conclusions, don't you? Just cut it out. I don't want to go out with David. That is the furthest thing from my mind. I admit at one time I would have loved it but now I AM TRYING MY DAMN HARDEST SO NOT TO ANNOY YOU BUT APPARENTLY NOTHING I DO IS RIGHT BY YOUR MAJESTY. You really have changed a hell of a lot since we were friends. I can't believe you now, Laura. I DON'T WANT YOUR BOYFRIEND! OK? Just get that through your head. Can't he have a damn good time with a few friends without having to worry about you being so overly paranoid about it?
If you would like to discuss this with me, that's great. I welcome it. But I would appreciate it if you would refrain from discussing it on my LJ. (By the way, if you're talking about who's changed since we were "friends", I would say much because a friend wouldn't have done anything in the first place).
If you don't want me replying to something about me, I suggest keeping it friends only. Naturally, if I had ever seen it, I'd reply to it. It's a natural human defense mechanism. So what, you want me to sit back peacefully while you talk shit about me? I suggest if you have any cruel remarks about anyone, you make sure that person can't read it if you don't want them to reply. I did the stuff I did because I had to have that kind of attention and David was the only person around. I never had any intention of getting him to leave you for me. If any other guy had been there I would have done the same thing. I had just seen my ex who had given me a heartbreak for 8 months. I was vulnerable. But really, nothing happened. I never meant for it to cause damage! You just can't see that I don't want to harm a friendship. I was not thinking then! Now I am! So he can't hang out with me in a group? Is that true?
For the record, Laura knows that you were inviting me and a couple of other people. I told her the incorrect information of where the invitation was to and that's my fault. Laura is not jumping to conclusions she merely said that you invited me that's all. The one jumping to conclusions is you. If you are insinuating that Laura puts a damper on what friends I can hang out with you are wrong. She encourages me to spent time with friends and get out of the house. I turned you down because it was my decision it had nothing to do with Laura. So why dont you get THAT through YOUR head.
"I found out Kelly spoke to David after the play last night, inviting him to a movie. I'm going to take the high ground here and not talk about it, but if you want to hear me rant a little call me." Obviously she was pissed off, I was merely replying to the fact that she was pissed about something I did. How on earth was I to know you told her the wrong bit of information? What was on the livejournal was on the livejournal. Not that you gave her the wrong bit of information so that is not a mistake on my part. And yes, obviously she does put a damper on what friends you hang out with because she was pissed off that I invited you somewhere. I don't care that you turned me down, I care that she was pissed that I invited you. That's all I talked about on my comment.
anonymous because i don't want an lj stalkerpmsingatella247April 25 2005, 18:01:56 UTC
ok, kelly, calm down a bit- laura is not in lynchburg right now, she's at school over an hour away. all she knows is what is told to her. if you put yourself in her position and heard that another girl made an advance, even if it was misguided and brief, which i understand, to an extent (been there, done that, but to lesser amount), she is GOING to jump to concusions. and being her friend, i contacted her and said "rant" you know what she did? she said maybe 5 words, then we moved on to more annoying things- like spanish
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Re: anonymous because i don't want an lj stalkerpmsingatella247April 25 2005, 18:28:37 UTC
Ok, so without previously knowing this, I'm supposed to sit back and enjoy an attack? But still without an apology, why would I stop fighting it? She's fighting at me.
you don't have to say it- if you don't want her to come, that implies you don't like her... if theres another reason, you ought to explain yourself, because she's a great girl and doesn't deserve to be left out of things with her friends because you have declared that you don't want her there... that's just vicious if you "never waid you didn't like her"
you don't have to saythings- its your actions that show us what you mean
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I did the stuff I did because I had to have that kind of attention and David was the only person around. I never had any intention of getting him to leave you for me. If any other guy had been there I would have done the same thing. I had just seen my ex who had given me a heartbreak for 8 months. I was vulnerable. But really, nothing happened. I never meant for it to cause damage! You just can't see that I don't want to harm a friendship. I was not thinking then! Now I am! So he can't hang out with me in a group? Is that true?
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its called "maturity"
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you don't have to saythings- its your actions that show us what you mean
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