One of my goals for 2021 was to walk a 5K every month in addition to the nearly daily walking I was already doing. My usual routes are either a double-helix around the neighborhood (approx. 1 kilometer), or a 1.5K zigzagging up the neighborhood and then over and around and down below the school, or a 2.5K which goes around the school, over into the ( Read more... )

There's no knowing when you will do something for the last time. I suppose this is why we cling so to tradition. It's a continuation in an uncertain world. All those years of holiday celebrations, dressing up for Halloween, coloring eggs for Easter, cooking turkeys for Thanksgiving, filling stockings for Christmas; they're all ways to hold on to ( Read more... )

Karin made dinner for us tonight: potato soup with carrots, leek and chicken dogs (cut-up). It's a soup that she and her classmates made once, on an expedition to Skrylle, which is a nature reserve not too far from the school. She was about 14 at the time, and they made the soup over an open fire and she clearly remembers me asking her, when she ( Read more... )

Where do people go when they stop blogging? How can they stand not knowing what's going on in the lives of the friends they've made online? How can they stand not knowing how the story continues? Even though I can go weeks without posting, I can't imagine stopping forever. Or, well, I can, but I don't want to. I like having this record of my life, ( Read more... )

I was waiting for a friend of mine at the mall on Friday evening, sitting on a bench outside of the store we were going to the grand opening of. I had my phone out and was checking email or Facebook or something and I glanced up to see if I could see her coming yet. But coming toward me was Karin. My daughter. And I thought, "What is Karin doing ( Read more... )

This weekend was filled with family thoughts in many different ways. Because it was the weekend after Thanksgiving, which we can't celebrate on Thursday here in Sweden, it was also filled with the friends who have become family over the years ( Read more... )

Megsie tagged me a book meme on Facebook, which is kinda the only meme that I can't resist. It's posting 7 books you love for seven days. When you read as much as I do, it's REALLY hard to only pick 7 books. Do you pick your FAVORITES? (Impossible to stick to 7, in that case). Do you stick to one genre? Do you play to your audience? Do you choose ( Read more... )

The beginning of 2018 was pretty calm and we hosted a New Year’s Eve dinner with friends here in Flyinge. Liz was recovering from gall bladder removal surgery, so she was taking it pretty easy. Anders went skiing again with colleagues, now an annual tradition. Martin returned to college in Detroit for the second half of his freahman year, even ( Read more... )

I think a lot about dying these days. I'm not sure why. Maybe because I'm over halfway to a hundred? Maybe because I wonder what my family would do without me? Maybe because I see signs of decay in so many places. It's in the news. It's in the illnesses and diseases and diagnoses that drop like bombs around you. It's a worm in the brain that ( Read more... )

How do you live so far away from family? It's not a question I get that often, because I've been here for so long and I'm part of an expat community who have ALL moved far away from home and family. Most of the time, you just don't think about it. You live your life, you go to work, you clean your house, and make dinner, but you don't think about ( Read more... )