Nov 10, 2005 16:41
I'm so proud of myself! Larry mentioned last night that his next to oldest daughter invited him up for xmas so he could be with his granddaughter on her first xmas. He's considering going. Before I would have been VERY upset, felt left out, angry, sad, just all emotions. When he said that to me, at first I was hurt (but only for a second), then I told him to do whatever he needed/wanted to do. I'm going to have my family here for xmas and if he doesn't want to be with me, so be it. I am becoming more independent, and I'm liking it.
He took me out to lunch today and we had a nice time. When the bill came I asked if he wanted some help with it and he said yes. I knew he would. Very rarely now does he take me out and pay for it. Its usually dutch, which I guess is fine, but it would be nice to be treated once in awhile too.
My sister in law is OK! No cancer! Thank God! Thanks to all who were praying for her too.