Sex

[littleredboots]

Does anyone else really hate sex? I mean do you not think it just gets in the way of so much? Between worrying about performance, from you and them, and poor performance, from you or them, worrying about STIs and god knows what else. With pain and emotions and protection and wanting it, needing it. Wanting to not want or need it. The emotional

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[gwardian]

*hugs*

[aoife_lushon]

I'm lucky enough to have one or two very close friends (I'll call them friends although outsiders observing our relationships would probably jump to conclusions to the contrary) who probably share your point of view in that they are quite happy to hold people or to be held all night long without the expectation of sex. The problem with this is that you have to get to know someone extremely well before you can move to this stage in a friendship - feelings in this situation are often a lot more complicated than if you had actually had sex because of the physical and emotional closeness without the physical attraction, as it were

[littleredboots]

oh no, i think sex is fascinating too. Generally and mostly agree. but mostly the depth of your comment mostly serves to show how annoying and frustrating sex can be, because it just is that complicated. go to the library and look up sex... good lord.