THIS IS YOUR CONSCIENCE (or some other inner voice)...blimeyzawn1September 2 2005, 15:52:54 UTC
Ok, since you are NOT in a healthy state of mind and would likely be much better off if you could implant someone else's brain into yours for a time, I've decided to do the next best thing. Let's focus on reasons to be angry, ok? Maybe seeing them listed in front of you can help you to stay fixated on them:
1. This came out of nowhere. No warning. He just randomly decided to do this to you with no real rhyme or reason. It's a form of control and manipulation, and I know you know this. Focus on taking the control BACK from him, because it is the ONLY way you will get through this in one piece. David is going to want to get back together. You know this. But do you want to be permanently damaged by this? don't let that happen, please. If he sees you being totally dependent upon him, he's going to know he can do this again and you'll make him feel like god again. As my mom would probably say, TAKE BACK YOUR FUCKING POWER. Put HIM in the position you are in.
2. He hit on another girl and then called you to come over the next day to assuage his guilt or something equally horrid. He thinks he can have you when he wants and be rid of you when he doesn't. This is not the behavior of someone who respects you.
3. He is completely controlling you by doing this. Do you really WANT to let him do that?
There are lots of other reasons, like his overall behavior throughout this and whatnot. but let's just focus on these three for now. You have to keep yourself emotionally healthy so that you will be READY for a relationship with him again soon. And that means NOT pursuing him, not acting as if you can't live without him, etc.
It will be ok. And I am hear for you. And I love you very much.
1. This came out of nowhere. No warning. He just randomly decided to do this to you with no real rhyme or reason. It's a form of control and manipulation, and I know you know this. Focus on taking the control BACK from him, because it is the ONLY way you will get through this in one piece. David is going to want to get back together. You know this. But do you want to be permanently damaged by this? don't let that happen, please. If he sees you being totally dependent upon him, he's going to know he can do this again and you'll make him feel like god again. As my mom would probably say, TAKE BACK YOUR FUCKING POWER. Put HIM in the position you are in.
2. He hit on another girl and then called you to come over the next day to assuage his guilt or something equally horrid. He thinks he can have you when he wants and be rid of you when he doesn't. This is not the behavior of someone who respects you.
3. He is completely controlling you by doing this. Do you really WANT to let him do that?
There are lots of other reasons, like his overall behavior throughout this and whatnot. but let's just focus on these three for now. You have to keep yourself emotionally healthy so that you will be READY for a relationship with him again soon. And that means NOT pursuing him, not acting as if you can't live without him, etc.
It will be ok. And I am hear for you. And I love you very much.
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