Dec 03, 2008 10:15
Short little rant on modesty.
Women in the christian world are ALWAYS being judged on their morality based on the modesty of the clothes they wear, and they say it's our sole responsibility to bear the modesty burden. That guys modesty is based on the clothes they wear, not the thoughts they have in their head. They say it's distracting to see girls dressed immodestly and they can't help but think what they think. Well I do know this: Guy's think about having sex with a lot of women they meet. Straight up just meet, see on the street, whatever. I think that that is immodest and isn't a woman fault IN ANY WAY SHAPE OR FORM. I can be at work witch a shaved head, no makeup, and frumpy clothes, but still get hit on, ass slapped, or probably being thought about "immodestly." ITS NOT MY FAULT . There is nothing else I can do for you "innocent" onlookers. If men didn't spent a majority of their day thinking about "perverse" or sexual things and actually thinking about real women in those situations, then maybe they wouldn't be distracted by some tight fitting clothing, or a round bump on a woman. Women, respect yourself and cover up anyways, but men, have some fucking decency to give a woman enough respect that they don't have to worry about whether they are dressed modest enough to not distract you, and STOP BEING DISTRACTED. Your adult men, for heaven's sake!! Have you no will power at all? No repsect for women? Get a hold of yourselves.