confusion
Ok so the person who I wrote about and I had distinguished that we were going to just pull back alittle and take things slower because he is afraid of what will happen in 4 months. For some people not talking maybe the easiest thing for them to get over a situation or person. But not for this girl. No I wanted at least a call! Asking How I was
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I think you are hurting because of both. Does that make sense? After "Bill" I think you wanted someone to come a long and make you feel 100 times better then he did. And you deserve that. He's pretty much the first you dated since everything else happened so it's natural that you wanted more from him. Here's my second part, You two already being friends causes this situation to be even more hard then if you had only dated. You know that. You care about him so that is definately the "somthing more" part. You can't just shut off your heart or erase your feelings and I'm sure he hasn't either. Men just hide it differently.
I don't think he is a jerk. He probably knows he hurt you and is giving you space. Would you hurt more or less if you two still hung out and talked right now? It would be hard to not want to hug him or kiss him, or to give him the space he's asking for. Let this be for right now...let a week pass. I think you both just need time apart right now, then go back to being friends (you being a friend who cares for him more then a friend just makes you that much BETTER of a friend).
Love You! And please feel free to tell me I'm stupid:-)
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LOVE!!! and No I won't tell you to shut up! :)
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