Jan 25, 2006 13:15
so onto more important things, i almost forgot because the dream was so fucked up. i have very awesome news for anyone who cares or knows what the fuck has been going on for the past 7 months or so (other than the custody shit).
KYAN IS REFLUX FREE!!! a little background. when Kyan was about 4 mos or so he was getting some gnarly fevers. being a first time mom and someone who never had children i was flying by the seat of my pants and didn't think TOO to much of it because i thought he was teething. did some research, talked with other moms, all signs pointed to teething. so yeah. needless to say one night his fever jumped to 105! HOLY BAKING BABY BATMAN! took him to the hospital and it turned out he had a GNARLY UTI (which was actually a kidney infection).
turns out the poor lil bastard had enlarged ureters. the ureters are the lil tubie thingies that connect the kidneys to the bladder. well since they were enlarged, whenever Kyan pissed there wasn't enough pressure to push all the urine out so it would reflux back up into his kidneys, thus the problem.
so anyways i took Kyan to Dr. Austin the Urologist @ Barnes (who's hot and awesome and commended me on not mutilating my son's penis) and we talked about some shit and i told him about a surgery i'd heard about that was non invasive (as Kyan was only 6 mos at the time) so we decided to give it a go. met up 3 mos later and he not only still had reflux on the right side but he was having reflux on his left side as well. fuck. so i put on the big girl pants and comprimise my fears and turn my trust to the Dr. so yeah, invasive surgery... poor bub. surgery part went awesome, however some cunt decided that it would be a good idea to give Kyan Toradol because it's like a standard thingy. WELL, needless to say the next day Shawn was holding Kyan and telling me what a horrible mother i was etc etc etc... and Kyan goes into a fucking SEIZURE! organs fail and stop and he had to be shocked and have a breathing tube shoved down his throat, etc etc.. i almost went to jail for attempted assault and battery.. awesome. so yeah we were in the PICU for about 2 weeks because the dr's didn't listen to the manufacturers of said drug and i found out that not only are you NOT supposed to give that shit to kids under 2, but only give it ONCE to kids under 16. so yeah they gave it to him @ 6 mos 4 times that i KNEW of. cunts.
any fuckin' ways after all this insanity and hospitals and dr's and surgeries and just SHIT i'm VERY VERY happy to say that as of yesterday KYAN IS REFLUX FREE! HIS KIDNEY'S ARE TOP NOTCH! HE'S NORMAL, HAPPY, HEALTHY, AND JUST YES!!!! no more fucking meds, no more fucking Dr's (until July when Dr. Austin wants to do a follow up ultrasound) and no more fucking bullshit. MY KID CAN PEE LIKE YOU CAN YAY!
so yeah. praise the fuckin lord, devil, buddah, what the fuck ever... seriously. 2006 is already proving to be such a fucking kickass year. now i can finally get back to my schooling and actually CONCENTRATE on it, Kyan can get off formula and get back on track with his developmental diet (he couldn't have dairy and had to be on a low phospherus diet) and we can just move on, move up, and be fucking normal. i'm so proud of him through all of this, he's been so fucking cool regardless of all the bullshit he's been through, the catheters, the seizure, etc.... if he died.... i'm not even gonna finish the sentance, i'm just so god damned happy and i can't WAIT for the future. i love my baby. =D