Signs That You Are “Dating”

[lifenxcess]

Could those of you more experienced in this world of romantic entanglement please decipher these enigmatic situations and feelings for me

Comments

[klingrap]

It's pretty simple. If you like the dude, hang out with him and see what happens. If you don't like the dude, don't.

[gambalino]

yeah, as i've said, he is just simply an honest guy who is being completely himself with you (no bullshit, shockingt as it is), choosing to do what he feels is fun for himself (charlie and the chocolate factory?), and then doing his best to have a good time with you without any of the game playing behaviors. i believe this is what the mainstream calls healthy and mature. fuckers.
you're just readng his actions through the becki model of dating bevaiors and driving yourself crazy. (because, honestly, if you dated yourself and played the games you play wouldn't you be batty? :) ) i think you're anxious about this because he could easily be a long-term investment/relationship and you yourself haven't mentally prepared for this or might not have envisioned it ever happening to you. or have you?

[irishfuck]

DING DING DING DING DING!

*thousands of quarters crash to the floor*

Yowza

[mufflerman]

Becki. You are pathologically unhappy. If someone brought you ice cream, you'd assume they were trying to fatten you up for the slaughter. A walk through the park is a potential mugging and a Mahler symphony is a hate crime. This guy sounds nice. Even if he's not, or turns out not to be, can't you allow yourself just a fleeting moment of happines before disecting and shredding it under your self-manufactured scalpel of cynicism and insecurity?

My prescription to you is this: Take a Zoloft and start enjoying your life, or at least- try. Do it for the kids.