super vent.
so it begins...now the half siblings are popping up wanting to 'help' my dad and at first i was like wow that's fantastic but now i feel there might be ulterior motive (i.e. $$$)
i love how they think that continuing not wanting to meet me or my mom is gonna work in this situation when we've been his family for the past 25 years. they think they're just gonna come back and take over or something? they haven't even seen him since they were kids.
i'm so confused with all this it's such a strange stupid situation. his ex wife is friends with my aunt in texas. even though his ex showed up at my grandfather's funeral (22 years ago)and made a disgusting scene there. how do you stay friends with someone who does that at your father's funeral? so my half siblings kept in touch with marie. and they get mad at any mention of my name. meanwhile marie talks about them to me all the fucking time. i don't know if i even want to know them now. they're all in their 30's and still bitter. for some strange reason they think my dad cheated on their mom with my mom meanwhile they were already separated by the time they were going out and very much divorced by the time i was born. they still want him back. and let me be the first to tell you he's not the greatest father ever. i mean don't divorces happen every day? is it something to stay bitter about your whole lives? god. their mother is a fucking nutjob and raised them like that.
stupid irish people.
well my dad's finally going to an oncologist tomorrow, a year after he should've. i dunno what to expect. at least it's with a sloane kettering doctor.
these next few months are going to be very dramatic.
i love how they think that continuing not wanting to meet me or my mom is gonna work in this situation when we've been his family for the past 25 years. they think they're just gonna come back and take over or something? they haven't even seen him since they were kids.
i'm so confused with all this it's such a strange stupid situation. his ex wife is friends with my aunt in texas. even though his ex showed up at my grandfather's funeral (22 years ago)and made a disgusting scene there. how do you stay friends with someone who does that at your father's funeral? so my half siblings kept in touch with marie. and they get mad at any mention of my name. meanwhile marie talks about them to me all the fucking time. i don't know if i even want to know them now. they're all in their 30's and still bitter. for some strange reason they think my dad cheated on their mom with my mom meanwhile they were already separated by the time they were going out and very much divorced by the time i was born. they still want him back. and let me be the first to tell you he's not the greatest father ever. i mean don't divorces happen every day? is it something to stay bitter about your whole lives? god. their mother is a fucking nutjob and raised them like that.
stupid irish people.
well my dad's finally going to an oncologist tomorrow, a year after he should've. i dunno what to expect. at least it's with a sloane kettering doctor.
these next few months are going to be very dramatic.