I'm starting to notice something curious.
I'm finding that I'm pursued by men and have to pursue women. Why, I wonder? It's not like I don't talk about girls, so even if people don't ping me automatically it shouldn't be a problem to figure out. I feel like heterosexual men make fewer assumptions than homo/bi/pansexual women, in my case. I find it rather perplexing. I have a fairly tomboyish look. I have a hard time believing that it's because I'm somehow more attractive to men, than women.