So i'm still a push over.

[legato86]

I've not learnt any lessons, i'm still just as much as a push over as I've always been.

I'd been taking this girl I went to high school out on a few dates recently, a meal, a trip the to the cinema, an evening when I cooked and we watched tv at mine, a day out in the city etc, with the first, she gave me a peck on the cheek, by the last, she was

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[artonic]

I agree with Jon. I think it's the same for both guys and girls. Getting too emotionally invested before you're sure how the othe person honestly feels about you is just setting yourself up to get hurt. I've had a guy who I only met once briefly and spoke to via text messaging and such for a couple days suddenly tell me he was in love with me and was dead set on having me as his girlfriend. And whether I had the potential or not to return the feelings, it would never happen after that because it scared me that he was so attached so quickly.

And from a girl's point of view, when a girl says she's not ready and she has to think and all that bullshit that's just a "it's me, not you" way of saying she's not interested. Personally I think she's a jerk for leading you on like that and coming off interested and having sex. Yeah... I used to attract the same kind of guys. The assholes who only care about instant gratification and demand physical dominance.

When you easily leave yourself open, you become an easy target for selfish bitches to mess with. You are a really nice guy and it sucks that this is the kind of thing you have to deal with but you learn and move on. I think you just have to wait for someone to find you instead of looking.

And girls who come to your house drunk is usually not a good thing. There are exceptions but usually it's asking for trouble or something just to do something, if you know what I mean.

Glad to hear from you again. :)

[jonjonxd]

You never told me about this guy!

[artonic]

I didn't? It wasn't that big of a deal. It was just this guy (younger than me), who is a friend of a friend and he found me via Myspace or whatever after I had seen him in passing for literally a couple minutes where we didn't say a word to each other.

Anyway, he found me and messaged me on an interest I have (Phoenix Wright) and he was nice so we started texting. A couple days later, he told me he was in love with me. Asked me out, I said no. Weeks later, asked again, I said no. Second time means it just won't happen. But to this day, he still says he has deep feelings for me (granted I have seen him more since then) and he can't love anyone because I'm "the one" and whatnot.

But everyone has different feelings on true love and soulmates and stuff (I feel like it was love at first sight with Jason, but even then neither of us said it until after a month into us dating), so who am I to disregard his feelings as false? I just can't return them.

(Sorry to put this on your entry, Adam. u.u I know it's completely irrelevant lol.)<3

[jonjonxd]

when was this btw? was this during our little thing?

[artonic]

I met him before you. But I think you and I started talking around the time he asked me the second time.

[jonjonxd]

Glad my presence helped prevent it haha