As much as its been fun, hanging out with the boys taught me one important lesson - as girls, we must always respect ourselves and value our self-worths. We are not mere objects or trophies, or accomplishments to unlock. Only by valuing ourselves, do we not resort to means to validate our insecurities and let others know that they should value and ( Read more... )

Loving You Left Me Bankrupt

OCT. 23, 2012

By VICTORIA YOUNG
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The idea of being “part of a pair” is what bothers me the most. Easily my greatest fear in relationships is losing sight of who I am as an individual and becoming an indistinguishable part of a unit, which might in part be because I used to let it happen so much. I used to believe in this all-consuming, love-conquers-all doctrine of relationships ( Read more... )

"People come as package deals, of course, and we all have to accept that this is always the case. Nobody comes without excess baggage. Though I must admit, my bf deserves an award for being secure in our relationship because when you think about it, I’m the one that travels the most and I meet so many people in so many cities yet I’m the one who is ( Read more... )

• (chinky names! HAHA); jojo, tingting (joyce) and (maybelle) pingping WHINEhouse; PIE= pahn-island express.
• up at 6 only to miss math (FIRST LECTURE) cos the system fucked up joyce's timetable. tiurma time!
• it really pays to be thickskinned; even if the teacher's staring straight at you, cos you really had to tap the cards for attendance.
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today was a huge relief in itself. didn't matter it was with mom. didn't matter dad called and said less than 8words to me. didn't matter i met quite a few people that reminded me bout --.
the day got better spotting joyce, sharp, lynette and ver. short meet-up but it felt (: such a relief hugging joyce (helloimissyousosomuch) really. and with the ( Read more... )

i guess in a way im smiling cos i know with every one of my smiles you'll know that im not miserable over you.
you're not worth every bit of my attention, therefore the more i think of it the more i smile.

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i hate people intruding on my privacy. my santuary, my HAVEN. which in this case is my room and my bathroom hello ( Read more... )

taking alternate days to stay at home has been rather good. seeeeeriously hope i grow taller this hols.

posting results were out today and you got into np. figures(:

the others:
she sent me this song. frankie j's "never let you down"
he offered to be "first in queue" whenever  i need someone.
i'm impressed, but not touched.
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