Live long and prosper
Yeah, not all of them. Just some of them. My former office mgr called me yesterday to tell me that she had talked to Scott. He told her that he got married exactly 5 weeks after we broke up. Married. Married???? At first I was feeling that female OMG married to someone who isn't me and is possibly HAPPY??? NOOOOOO!!!!!!! It's not that I don't want him to be happy, it's just that he told me during our break-up that he just wasn't ready for marriage (even though he is the one who pushed so hard for it), but he was ready 5 weeks later?
It took me about 4 hours to decide how I felt about this news. I don't care. I was ok when it was over and I am ok now. I hope he gets exactly what he deserves. I hope she comes out of it without a scratch because there is no way she could know what I know after only 5 weeks.
My friend Michael told me today that he used to see Scott's truck in the parking lot at her place of business right before we broke up. He had no legitimate business there. If he wasn't seeing her while we were together he was laying the groundwork. He shouldn't have done that to me or to her. Karma.
I have no regrets about my own behavior during our relationship. Eventually I will learn that some people just aren't what they appear to be, and never can be. Kenna is pretty accurate in her analogy of life Be careful Auntie Lay, sometimes baby cats make poo when you aren't looking and you step in it people disappoint you horribly. That's YUCKY!!! Then you have to wipe your foot on Daddy's car. That makes all the bad stuff gone. But don't let Nana see you cause she yells sometimes.
Voila! I need to go see my brother tomorrow. I have to wipe my foot on his car. I'll enlist Kenna as a lookout for hovering Nana's.