broken hearts - forever yours....

[lavyan]

Well, I'm sitting here listening to Delilah or however you spell her name. (I've always wondered how exactly she spelled it) Anyways.. Thats isn't really the point. Alright, well. I was listening and all of a sudden my ex-boyfriend and our song came on the airwaves.. blahh. It was brought back memories and I was just thinking about how I missed

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[maril]

I don't know about other "older people", but I do not think young love is stupid. It is poignant,and sweet and heartbreaking and terrifying and confusing and so many other things.....but stupid it is not. It can make the heart soar or crash; can make one feel euphoria or feel they are in a bottomless depth. Young love is something we "older people" would probably like to feel again. As it is our love settles into something more solid, more dependable, quieter and deeper. That first sweet thrumming in the veins like a plucked violin string can never be quite the same again. For the operative word is: young. In my opinion anyway.

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[lavyan]

At least someone on this earth believes that. You put it in such delicate words. I just have to say wow. Well, most of the slack I'm catching woudl be from parents and older siblings. The Older siblings opinion seems to be that since I'm young that I can't possible be hurt in a relationship. It just sounds weird me even typing it. I stated something like "I don't want to put to much of myself into it as it would be possible to get hurt." My brother just laughed. I guess I'm just to that point in my life where it is very hard to get along with my family. My views and opinions seem to upset them at every angle possible. I'm trying to develop into my own and break free from their grasp.
I didn't mean to stereotype everyone older than me into the "older people" catagory. Maybe its just my family that happens to be so amused by the point in my life that I'm at. Anyways, I've already wrote more than I was anticipating. btw. you write back really fast. Very prompt.

-Lavyan

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[maril]

I hope I'm not too prompt!! It's a failing of mine. :) Anyway, it's a common problem of siblings and parents to forget they were once right where you are. Just keep trying to be yourself. If you are true to who you are, you should be able to get through most things. Sometimes not easily, but you will win through.