rock of love: with lauren blair
so i totally posted an entry or two...that didn't post for some reason. mysterious. anyhoo, since only a few people have access to this page...i'm gonna dish about some dates i've been going on! wahoo. obviously if i end up being serious with any of these guys in the future, and they have an lj,...this entry is so deleted. lol.
so there's 4 guys i've gone on dates with recently, and 2 i have yet to meet. (ain't i a pimp?) here's what the deal on the first four are:
Joel- very nice guy. i'd call him good looking, but he's also not historically my type. we seem to have a lot in common. it's very easy to talk to him. i don't sense there is any "x factor" with him, so i'm not sure there is a future. however, i get the impression he's pretty into me. he kept calling me beautiful, kinda to the point where it made me uncomfortable. i'm going out with him again tomorrow, maybe i'll feel something more. if not, then he'll just become a friend, or someone i happened to go on a few dates with.
Greg- omg...one of the best looking guys i've ever met. somewhat socially awkward though. very intelligent. possibly somewhat boring. looks identical to a guy who broke my heart a year and a half ago, and that kind of creeps me out. i don't think there was a big connection, but i would def go on a date with him again, not only because he's fucking hot, but also to give him a chance to be less awkward since a second date is more relaxed than the first. however, i don't think there will be a second date. i went out with him a week ago and he hasn't called. i'm ok with this. we'll see what happens.
Tipp- yes, his name is Tipp. good looking. well mannered. unbelievably intelligent. good sense of humor. we got along very nicely. good looking, also not historically my type, but i was more attracted to him than Joel. possibly too "by the book" or conventional for me. however, overall i had a great time with him. he made a joke that before he left for our date he told his room mate, "she's pretty, she's thin...i'm guessing there will be a good slice of crazy that'll come with her," and then said to me he was pleasantly surprised i was failing in the crazy department. sounds like he could be interested. i would def. accept a second date. we went out a few days ago and in conversation it got brought up that he's having a lot of out of town company over the next week or so. so it's possible if he doesn't call right away it's because he's busy. we'll go with the flow on this one.
Travis- my favorite. he was the only one to hit me with the "wow/x factor." what's funny is, he also isn't historically my type. he is attractive though. honestly, it's his eyes that hooked me. they are very nice to look at, but more than that, there's a lot of kindness in them. i'm a believer in that cheesy cliche of the eyes being the window to your soul. his whole personality and demeanor was very gentle- but i don't believe he's a wimp or anything. just a nice, genuine guy. we have the same sense of humor. both lived in south florida for a while and hated it. we have similiar taste in music. i really liked him, he's officially my new crush. the thing is, i couldn't read him. he seemed like he was having fun. i don't believe i gave him any reason to not like me...i'm just not sure though. maybe it's because i do like him and my head is cloudly, or i don't want to get my hopes up. in the past, whenever i like someone off the bat it's a complete disaster. we went out thursday, and i'm glad he didn't call friday bc the day after is too pathetic. and then it was the weekend, so i'm cool with that too. if he don't call monday or tuesday, it probably isn't good news. lol, listen to me...i sound like SUCH a girl. i hate liking someone for that very reason.
the other two guys..we'll see. one does cocaine occasionally, so my expectations aren't ridiculously high. in fact, i might blow him off all together (and not just for the drug reasons). he is super cute though- damnit! the second guy seems nice, but i don't know a lot about him. we'll see how that unfolds...or doesn't.
so that is what's going on in my world. watch me have all these prospects and have none work out. i've had bad luck with that before! i'm just happy to be dating again since i took the whole fall and most of the winter off. we'll see.....
so there's 4 guys i've gone on dates with recently, and 2 i have yet to meet. (ain't i a pimp?) here's what the deal on the first four are:
Joel- very nice guy. i'd call him good looking, but he's also not historically my type. we seem to have a lot in common. it's very easy to talk to him. i don't sense there is any "x factor" with him, so i'm not sure there is a future. however, i get the impression he's pretty into me. he kept calling me beautiful, kinda to the point where it made me uncomfortable. i'm going out with him again tomorrow, maybe i'll feel something more. if not, then he'll just become a friend, or someone i happened to go on a few dates with.
Greg- omg...one of the best looking guys i've ever met. somewhat socially awkward though. very intelligent. possibly somewhat boring. looks identical to a guy who broke my heart a year and a half ago, and that kind of creeps me out. i don't think there was a big connection, but i would def go on a date with him again, not only because he's fucking hot, but also to give him a chance to be less awkward since a second date is more relaxed than the first. however, i don't think there will be a second date. i went out with him a week ago and he hasn't called. i'm ok with this. we'll see what happens.
Tipp- yes, his name is Tipp. good looking. well mannered. unbelievably intelligent. good sense of humor. we got along very nicely. good looking, also not historically my type, but i was more attracted to him than Joel. possibly too "by the book" or conventional for me. however, overall i had a great time with him. he made a joke that before he left for our date he told his room mate, "she's pretty, she's thin...i'm guessing there will be a good slice of crazy that'll come with her," and then said to me he was pleasantly surprised i was failing in the crazy department. sounds like he could be interested. i would def. accept a second date. we went out a few days ago and in conversation it got brought up that he's having a lot of out of town company over the next week or so. so it's possible if he doesn't call right away it's because he's busy. we'll go with the flow on this one.
Travis- my favorite. he was the only one to hit me with the "wow/x factor." what's funny is, he also isn't historically my type. he is attractive though. honestly, it's his eyes that hooked me. they are very nice to look at, but more than that, there's a lot of kindness in them. i'm a believer in that cheesy cliche of the eyes being the window to your soul. his whole personality and demeanor was very gentle- but i don't believe he's a wimp or anything. just a nice, genuine guy. we have the same sense of humor. both lived in south florida for a while and hated it. we have similiar taste in music. i really liked him, he's officially my new crush. the thing is, i couldn't read him. he seemed like he was having fun. i don't believe i gave him any reason to not like me...i'm just not sure though. maybe it's because i do like him and my head is cloudly, or i don't want to get my hopes up. in the past, whenever i like someone off the bat it's a complete disaster. we went out thursday, and i'm glad he didn't call friday bc the day after is too pathetic. and then it was the weekend, so i'm cool with that too. if he don't call monday or tuesday, it probably isn't good news. lol, listen to me...i sound like SUCH a girl. i hate liking someone for that very reason.
the other two guys..we'll see. one does cocaine occasionally, so my expectations aren't ridiculously high. in fact, i might blow him off all together (and not just for the drug reasons). he is super cute though- damnit! the second guy seems nice, but i don't know a lot about him. we'll see how that unfolds...or doesn't.
so that is what's going on in my world. watch me have all these prospects and have none work out. i've had bad luck with that before! i'm just happy to be dating again since i took the whole fall and most of the winter off. we'll see.....