Wackkky wants to restore a relationship
I made a subscription to comments to Klaus Joehle's blog and today got 2 new comments. Again, I'll try to give my own answers to the questions, as the questions are pretty interesting. Here is the first.
wackkky has left a new comment on the post "Questions":
Hi Klaus! I couldn't find an answer in your blog to something similar that interests me, so I'll ask you. Well, I just finished reading your book "The Messenger" and tried radiating and even sending love. I may not be very good at it yet but at lest it already makes me feel better.
The thing I wanted to ask you about is the following. About 2 years ago I started dating a man and we fell in love at first sight. It was very unusal and unexpected for both of us. We felt such special connection that we sometimes could read each others minds or simultaneously say or do the very same thing. But then it all fell apart.
I live about 1000 km away and could visit only once a month. Because I didn't spend much time with this man's sister when I visited (we were very good friends before) she became jealous and angry with me. And because of that their family is very against me. I tried to make friends again and explain why this had happened but they won't listen and don't talk to me any more. They made me stay away from this man I love and make him believe that I am not a good person to be with. He left me 2 years ago. This was a long and painful story with depressions and tranquilizers and a lot of time had passed but the feelings are still the same.
About half a year ago he said he still loves me but we can't meet because it will only break his heart. It's hard for me to explain but when we are (were) together it is like having that connection and the feeling of safety and happiness for both of us. Is it possible by sending love to change the attitude of that family to me and to make that man make the steps towards me that he was afraid to make or make him feel that he is capable of bringing back those relationships that make him happy?
I am sorry for such a long and weird question. I would really appreciate if you could help me out of this situation. Thank you, Klaus.
Kostya:
Wacccky, I believe you should begin sending love to all the people involved in your situation.
Do it in the way you prefere or use my method of helping yourself with words. If you feel good when sending love - then you do it right.
If you follow my method, tell yourself these words. Do it with no effort at all, it's enough to just imagine that you are sending love. Here are the words:
I imagine I really create love in the center of my chest.
I imagine I really fill myself with love.
I imagine I really feel love in my whole body.
I imagine I really send love into situation ...
I imagine I really fill with love my relationship with (guy's name)
I imagine I really fill with love my relationship with his sister.
I imagine I really fill with love my relationship with his parents.
I imagine I really fill with love my relationship with him and his whole family.
I imagine I really send love to my acceptance of relationship with ...
I imagine I really fill with love my life.
And so on.
And please have a look at my video instructions on Sending Love at youtube and ustream.
wackkky has left a new comment on the post "Questions":
Hi Klaus! I couldn't find an answer in your blog to something similar that interests me, so I'll ask you. Well, I just finished reading your book "The Messenger" and tried radiating and even sending love. I may not be very good at it yet but at lest it already makes me feel better.
The thing I wanted to ask you about is the following. About 2 years ago I started dating a man and we fell in love at first sight. It was very unusal and unexpected for both of us. We felt such special connection that we sometimes could read each others minds or simultaneously say or do the very same thing. But then it all fell apart.
I live about 1000 km away and could visit only once a month. Because I didn't spend much time with this man's sister when I visited (we were very good friends before) she became jealous and angry with me. And because of that their family is very against me. I tried to make friends again and explain why this had happened but they won't listen and don't talk to me any more. They made me stay away from this man I love and make him believe that I am not a good person to be with. He left me 2 years ago. This was a long and painful story with depressions and tranquilizers and a lot of time had passed but the feelings are still the same.
About half a year ago he said he still loves me but we can't meet because it will only break his heart. It's hard for me to explain but when we are (were) together it is like having that connection and the feeling of safety and happiness for both of us. Is it possible by sending love to change the attitude of that family to me and to make that man make the steps towards me that he was afraid to make or make him feel that he is capable of bringing back those relationships that make him happy?
I am sorry for such a long and weird question. I would really appreciate if you could help me out of this situation. Thank you, Klaus.
Kostya:
Wacccky, I believe you should begin sending love to all the people involved in your situation.
Do it in the way you prefere or use my method of helping yourself with words. If you feel good when sending love - then you do it right.
If you follow my method, tell yourself these words. Do it with no effort at all, it's enough to just imagine that you are sending love. Here are the words:
I imagine I really create love in the center of my chest.
I imagine I really fill myself with love.
I imagine I really feel love in my whole body.
I imagine I really send love into situation ...
I imagine I really fill with love my relationship with (guy's name)
I imagine I really fill with love my relationship with his sister.
I imagine I really fill with love my relationship with his parents.
I imagine I really fill with love my relationship with him and his whole family.
I imagine I really send love to my acceptance of relationship with ...
I imagine I really fill with love my life.
And so on.
And please have a look at my video instructions on Sending Love at youtube and ustream.