Aug 03, 2009 21:16
I'm very serious about Aunts and Uncles Day being celebrated on August 25, 2009. I thought about how little time most (if not all) my readers have and how you may want to participate, but it might take more effort than you can give it. Since it's a brand new celebration, you aren't able to just go to a store and pick up a card. I told you before, this isn't a day about gifts but to focus on your gratitude for your aunts and uncles. I decided to write a form letter for you to use. You can copy and paste and alter it to make the specifics suit your circumstances, elaborating as you see fit. You can merely use it as a jumping off point for your own letter of recognition. Or you can completely disregard it, but if you make this choice, I hope it doesn't mean you will disregard the entire idea.
Also, please note, aunts and uncles aren't to be honored just because their siblings or spouses' siblings had children. It isn't honoring by default. Nope, if they haven't made any effort to get o know you or be part of your life, then don't worry about recognizing them.
AUNTS AND UNCLES DAY FORM LETTER
Dearest Aunt/Uncle Their Name:
I heard about a woman who believes aunts and uncles deserve a day of recognition. She’s trying to start an annual Aunts and Uncles Day and the first celebration is August 25, 2009. When I thought of you, I knew I had to participate. You deserve to be honored for how influential and important you are in my life.
I remember when you and I used to *write what you did together*. This is a precious memory I will always treasure.
Also, you taught me to *write something she/he taught you-a skill or life lesson*. I use this knowledge frequently/often/everyday or every time I (say when you use your knowledge).
I don’t know if you realize this but the conversation we had about *state recalled topic* really stuck with me. Because of your words of wisdom, I’ve been able to *make a decision or complete an act* without worrying about my decision.
I have so many cherished memories of you in my life, probably more than you’ll ever be capable of knowing. I may just be a niece/nephew to you, but you have made me a priority in your life and I genuinely appreciate the kindness, love, support, and encouragement you have always given and made available to me.
Thanks again and I love you always!