Aug 08, 2007 16:13
Just to clarify, I don’t have anything against sex. I love it! I think sex is wonderful, and fun, and one of life’s pure joys. Yes, I am monogamous. That is probably because I grew up with a Disney view of love and intimacy, which I hold on to because it makes my own world good. I don’t expect or even want anyone to be like me anymore than I want anyone to pressure me to change who I am. Diversity is the spice of life, it’s what makes this world fun and exciting. All I want is for people to be safe and use their brains a little from time to time. Furs are some of the most intelligent people I’ve ever met, but when it comes to making sure their protected it seems like a lot of IQs drop. Just so you all know, I am not trying to pass judgment on anyone’s sex life or sexual appetites. Nor do I want people to live in fear. I just want people to know that being a fur does not equal fantasy-land safety.