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[kymbo_strange]

so the OC made me cry...when marissa is talking to her dad on the beach...

all of a sudden i have so much to think about... and i dont like it. a week ago everything was going great.. i was really happy for like 2 weeks in a row..no drama..no "being depressed"..i was having fun.and now, i dunno.. its different.

``Best friends who are suddenly

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[anonymous]

It's good to know the advice and encouraging words you give to others, you would not want given to you, because they are "bull shit" and you do not want to hear them. What makes you think they want to hear it from you? You don't need sympathy or a therapist, but you need security, because that's the best thing to come out of feeling loved by that one person. However, that is something you need to find within yourself, rather than relying on other people for it, because honestly, anything genuinely good you get in your life will be self obtained. People aren't going to do anything of great significance for you, and this feeling you're talking about? Your friends and family truly and completely love you, and if the feeling is mutual, you already know what love is, and it really does not get much better than that, especially in regards to your family. You have a big family near you that loves you, and you should be incredibly grateful every day for that love, because as you have already seen, friends will come and go, but your family will never cause you intentional pain or decide to completely disregard your feelings like this best friend and perhaps other friends have done in the past. It probably seems as if no one understands and this feeling is never going to leave you, but it will, and I'm not feeding you bull shit. Everyone has or will feel this way at some point in their lives and allowing to to gradually dissipate is, in the end, much easier than being one of those couples and eventually (and inevitably) facing heartbreak. That type of pain will linger, following you for months, maybe even years..and sometimes, it never goes away. While it sounds overrated, make focal points of the good things in your life, like your family and the good friends you do have, not ones you have lost.