friendship, friends, and some random thoughts about it
I am too often thinking about friendship and how i am as a friend…
So, i was wondering how do you think you are as a friend? What do you think of me as a friend? Do you tend to have rather a bunch of friends (your friends are friends with most of them and know each other) or do you have more friends that do not know any of your other friends?
How did you meet your best friends?
I have no idea why i am often thinking about it but i am not sure if my situation with friends is "normal" (but who says anyway what's normal) - i mean, i only have 3 friends that are a group and know each other.. The rest of my good friends are just "my" friends but don't know anyone of my other friends (ok, i might have introduced them to each other but they are still not close or anything) - do you think that is normal????
Also, that i have penpals who i consider true friends is a special situation (and people who don't pal don't understand that in most cases) - but you see, most of my penpals are not in a circle either.. Of course many of you know each other but i do have pals that are not into swapping or lj..
What really makes me sad about that is, that i cannot even invite all my friends to a party.. Because they might barely be 10 people (plus the distance: home - vienna is a problem too) and they do not know each other :(
I really want you to answer some of my questions or share your thoughts about friendship/your situation with friends - thank you so much.
Maybe i am worrying too much but i often think i am a boring friend - it's stupid to think so but i can't help feeling that way. *sigh*
So, i was wondering how do you think you are as a friend? What do you think of me as a friend? Do you tend to have rather a bunch of friends (your friends are friends with most of them and know each other) or do you have more friends that do not know any of your other friends?
How did you meet your best friends?
I have no idea why i am often thinking about it but i am not sure if my situation with friends is "normal" (but who says anyway what's normal) - i mean, i only have 3 friends that are a group and know each other.. The rest of my good friends are just "my" friends but don't know anyone of my other friends (ok, i might have introduced them to each other but they are still not close or anything) - do you think that is normal????
Also, that i have penpals who i consider true friends is a special situation (and people who don't pal don't understand that in most cases) - but you see, most of my penpals are not in a circle either.. Of course many of you know each other but i do have pals that are not into swapping or lj..
What really makes me sad about that is, that i cannot even invite all my friends to a party.. Because they might barely be 10 people (plus the distance: home - vienna is a problem too) and they do not know each other :(
I really want you to answer some of my questions or share your thoughts about friendship/your situation with friends - thank you so much.
Maybe i am worrying too much but i often think i am a boring friend - it's stupid to think so but i can't help feeling that way. *sigh*