Having Fun!
So I met this guy off of Match.Com which I have to say makes me feel like a loser. BUT...I have really enjoyed being around him. Friday night he picks me up here at the Willingboro house and then we were on out way to Fridays. I was taken back when he opened the car door for me cause its been so long since anyone has done that for me. So we sit at the bar and just hit it off. We talked about so many different things. Past relationships, family, friends, what we want out of life...After a few drinks we headed back to the house. I invited him in and we watched a movie. He ended up staying the night. It was very nice. I woke him up in the morning so he could get up and go to work. For the most part I stayed in bed after I got up and went to McDonalds to get some grub for Katie and I. Not thinking I was going to see him till next week, he calls me Sat. and asks me if I would like to get together with him that night. I thought about it for a second and was like, "Yea, sure. I would love too." We headed down his way and went to his friends house. Ed and Dawn were so nice. We ordered food for Dawn and I because the guys were going to eat crab legs. YUCK! They wouldnt let me pay which I felt very bad for but it was very nice of them. After a few beers we headed back to Mikes place. His house is so cute. It was so clean and welcoming...Yea, I ended up spending the night there. Again, watched a movie. I was starting to ask myself what was wrong with this guy? He was funny, sweet, and I just felt really relaxed being around him. Well I found out later what was wrong. But anyway, we didnt go to sleep till 5:20 something in the morning. Then didnt wake up till 2:15 pm. What bums we were. So our asses moved from the bed to the couch. Watched football....not my thing but I enjoyed it. He got up and went to get us pizza. Still on the couch till around 7pm then he took me home. And he stayed over. OH!!! Sunday was when I found out that he had a 6 year old. WTF?????? Thats what was wrong with him.....
He explained that he was scared to say anything because every other girl (for the most part) would turn around and walk the other way. I basiclly said to him that I wasnt pissed that he had a kid but would of rather him tell right off the batt instead of waiting. He was scared that I would of judged him but instead he judged me. I really didnt like that. I mean, Im ok with the kid thing I guess. He has full custody. The mother is not in the picture. Thats what I really didnt like when I was with Russ. I dont want to hold that against him but now my gaurd is up even more because he lied.
Then Monday comes, we both go to work and he text messages me if I would like to go out for dinner? So I was like yea! I said to him that I was going to treat and he said ok. Well he came here after realizing that he didnt let his dog out yet so we headed back down his way. We hung out at his house for a few, played with the puppy then went out to get some grub. Again, we went to Fridays. Had an enjoyable dinner. I went to go pay the bill and got my hand slapped. He said to me that he already told me once that when Im out with him I will not pick up any bill. So I bitched for a while and let him pay. In the back of my head I was like...NICE!
We sat at the bar and just never stopped talking. I really enjoyed it. For once Im hanging out with a guy who has something to say.
He drove me back home and again spent the night with me. I loved it. I had so much fun the past 4 days. I will wait and see where this goes. No need to rush into anything.
Tonight I have the night off.
He explained that he was scared to say anything because every other girl (for the most part) would turn around and walk the other way. I basiclly said to him that I wasnt pissed that he had a kid but would of rather him tell right off the batt instead of waiting. He was scared that I would of judged him but instead he judged me. I really didnt like that. I mean, Im ok with the kid thing I guess. He has full custody. The mother is not in the picture. Thats what I really didnt like when I was with Russ. I dont want to hold that against him but now my gaurd is up even more because he lied.
Then Monday comes, we both go to work and he text messages me if I would like to go out for dinner? So I was like yea! I said to him that I was going to treat and he said ok. Well he came here after realizing that he didnt let his dog out yet so we headed back down his way. We hung out at his house for a few, played with the puppy then went out to get some grub. Again, we went to Fridays. Had an enjoyable dinner. I went to go pay the bill and got my hand slapped. He said to me that he already told me once that when Im out with him I will not pick up any bill. So I bitched for a while and let him pay. In the back of my head I was like...NICE!
We sat at the bar and just never stopped talking. I really enjoyed it. For once Im hanging out with a guy who has something to say.
He drove me back home and again spent the night with me. I loved it. I had so much fun the past 4 days. I will wait and see where this goes. No need to rush into anything.
Tonight I have the night off.