I would have taken the note he wrote and write on it "Obviously, you don't want or need this door open. You must have Schizophrenia." then opened the door, taped it to the inside of the door (the side he would see from his room), then close the door.
Why does your mate defend this person? He doesn't sound like the kind of person anyone would want for a roommate. I highly doubt this situation will get any better anytime soon.
Congratulations on your one year anniversary! Many furry couples never make it that far. I hope the year ahead is good for you both!
My mate is the kind that looks for the good in every thing and can not stand or handle fights and yelling. This is why he keeps getting in the way, and because I love him so much I honor and respect his wish's to start no fights
Also thank you for the kind words and congratulations.
You know what? Most people don't like confrontation, but there are times when you need to defend yourself and take a stand for the ones you love. Quite honestly, from what you have posted in your journal, your roommate sounds like a real jerk. No offense but shame on your mate for not telling said jerk that his actions are making you upset and stressed, or at the very least, not "getting in the way" of telling this guy his behavior is unacceptable. Your mate needs to put your needs before the concept of "political correctness" or being Mr. Nice Guy.
I agree and me and him have had this conversation in the past a few times. How ever as it stands Said asshole of a roomie is the only one with the car and the only one with the job job so it is his apartment. No I do nto think that gives the asshole the rights to treat me or the mate the way he dose and trust me I am always looking for some other place to go.
Ah, now that sheds a lot of light on the situation. As you have said, he is the one with the car, the job, and it is his apartment. You and your mate are the ones that chose to live with this guy, so you are going to have to abide by his rules. It's an unfortunate situation, I hope you can get out of there soon.
Why does your mate defend this person? He doesn't sound like the kind of person anyone would want for a roommate. I highly doubt this situation will get any better anytime soon.
Congratulations on your one year anniversary! Many furry couples never make it that far. I hope the year ahead is good for you both!
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Also thank you for the kind words and congratulations.
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