Mar 19, 2005 02:41
Something to make you think about life................
The meaning of life can not be found in a dictionary or on the internet or an encyclopedia. You can not just ask someone and expect them to answer you right away. The meaning of life can be found in the friends you make, you family and your relationships. They are what make each day special and each day whole, without them your life would be meaningless and empty. Getting into a huge fight with one of my closest friends made me realize how lucky I was to have a friend to fight with. There are so many people who don't have friends to even fight with. This is saying that you should never take any of your friends for granted because you might end up losing them over something small. Fortunately it hasn't happened to me yet and I hope it never will but I've known people who grow apart just for fighting over something stupid.
Your family is also something else that can make you think about life. Cherish your family for everything it's worth and don't ever get mad at them because you never know when they might die or move away. Don't ever say you hate them either because it could backfire on you if they all of a sudden left one day and you never got the chance to tell them you love them and how much they really mean to you. I never got to say goodbye to my grandma the last time I saw her before she died and I forgot to tell her I loved her. The day I heard she died I broke down and cried. It was one of the hardest times of my life.
Relationships. There ain't much to say about this one except that when you find someone who you have fallen completely head over heels for don't rush things by telling them you love them a week after ya'll start going out. And if you really really love someone and they're having doubts about going out with you, don't rush them either because what is meant to be will be and you can't force them to go out with you. I waited for 3 months before my current boyfriend finally asked me out and then and there the moment that he asked me out I knew it was all worth it because there will never be any one like him that makes me feel the way he does and every night I thank God for him.
Be thankful that you have what you have. Never take anything for granted and never tell someone you hate them because even the smallest words can cause the biggest dilemas. Remember what is meant to be will happen and if you try to rush something then it won't work out in the end. So I leave you with these words: live life to it's fullest and don't regret the things you did because if you hadn't done them you might not be where you are right now.