Thinking a lot...
Maybe I can tell some things here because I don't have too many people following me (as I have at Twitter, FB and my personal blog), so I can have a little of freedom to write what I think. Or in parts.
Almost four years ago, I belonged of a fandom (for personal reasons I cannot tell whose was). At a certain point, it was a nice place to exchange ideas, photos, videos and more informations. Suddenly, due some estranged things, little by little, the members were dropping. Including me. But, in my case, the reason of my dropping was my discussion with the "president" of the fandom. Many things that this person said, was so unreal. And I was trying - in vain - to show to this person that some things are fully wrong. My behavior turned bitter. I had some personal troubles at that time and the way that this person treats us, was unacceptable for me.
I got a suspension. It was unfair. Can't we argue, to discuss, to show our opinions? End of the story: I asked to erase my name of the fandom, if it possible, of their lifes too.
Since that day some people stills talk with me, until now. I have to give my hand to them because they accepted me WHO I am, not for WHAT I did there.
One day, I was talking at the Twitter with a friend of mine who lives in Japan too. I mentioned "that" fandom. At the same day, I have a beautiful text of "that person" at FB. I didn't read it, and, even if I'd read it, I didn't reply because it was loss of time. I don't care what "that person" thinks of me. I have my own life and "that person" has own too. I don't need more troubles.
Today I was talking with a friend of mine that belonged from that the same fandom. For personal reasons she deleted her account too. And now she cut relations with "that person" too, because of many reasons beyond the fandom ~ the differences of ideas. And my friend was enough of the commentaries from "that person". I don't talk with her for times, because our lack of time. She lives in Brazil, works and studies. When she can be on line, I'm going to sleep. And vice versa.
She said that "that person" doesn't respect our points of view, our choices, our ideas. "That person" does "slut-shaming" with whom doesn't agree of nothing. Egocentrism.
"That person" could read our chat (at Twitter), but I don't care. I don't be afraid of the words, because, if I reply, it shows that I'm a weak person.
And the Sakuraiba lovers and shippers still in peace and quiet because we aren't crabby and stubborn.
Almost four years ago, I belonged of a fandom (for personal reasons I cannot tell whose was). At a certain point, it was a nice place to exchange ideas, photos, videos and more informations. Suddenly, due some estranged things, little by little, the members were dropping. Including me. But, in my case, the reason of my dropping was my discussion with the "president" of the fandom. Many things that this person said, was so unreal. And I was trying - in vain - to show to this person that some things are fully wrong. My behavior turned bitter. I had some personal troubles at that time and the way that this person treats us, was unacceptable for me.
I got a suspension. It was unfair. Can't we argue, to discuss, to show our opinions? End of the story: I asked to erase my name of the fandom, if it possible, of their lifes too.
Since that day some people stills talk with me, until now. I have to give my hand to them because they accepted me WHO I am, not for WHAT I did there.
One day, I was talking at the Twitter with a friend of mine who lives in Japan too. I mentioned "that" fandom. At the same day, I have a beautiful text of "that person" at FB. I didn't read it, and, even if I'd read it, I didn't reply because it was loss of time. I don't care what "that person" thinks of me. I have my own life and "that person" has own too. I don't need more troubles.
Today I was talking with a friend of mine that belonged from that the same fandom. For personal reasons she deleted her account too. And now she cut relations with "that person" too, because of many reasons beyond the fandom ~ the differences of ideas. And my friend was enough of the commentaries from "that person". I don't talk with her for times, because our lack of time. She lives in Brazil, works and studies. When she can be on line, I'm going to sleep. And vice versa.
She said that "that person" doesn't respect our points of view, our choices, our ideas. "That person" does "slut-shaming" with whom doesn't agree of nothing. Egocentrism.
"That person" could read our chat (at Twitter), but I don't care. I don't be afraid of the words, because, if I reply, it shows that I'm a weak person.
And the Sakuraiba lovers and shippers still in peace and quiet because we aren't crabby and stubborn.