Men are like shoes?

[kittycat_black]

I'm always telling people that when I met Matt I just knew he was 'the one'. I know a lot of people don't really understand that and people are often asking 'but how do you just know?'. So I thought about it and I realised that the best way to explain it is using my shoe analogy. lol

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[darker123]

My approach to being with someone I could live my life with is really... well.. it involves 1 of 2 things... first... I was very lucky... second it involves learning for the better... Well at least I will always do that... and it's hard sometimes... I'm sure you know that communication is the most important part of a relationship... that's hard to do when you're love.. but not impossible.. it takes understanding... a lot of understanding...

and talking... talking about important issues... there's so many issues in a relationship to deal with... and the sooner the better! I always try to look for problems.. or things that could be a problem or and talk about them... because they are important... and they will always be there until they are resolved..

So... I hope that helps... it's my idea about marriage.. and.. I will always try and be my best!

and... Mona found me.. and she choose to be with me.. and... I have an obligation to make her the happiest I can.. (it's one of my goals..) hehe

I think Mona is just right for me.. and everything else is just learning.. and growing together... understanding and communicating...

[kittycat_black]

I agree that relationships take work... but I also think that when the relationship is right the 'work' doesn't feel like work at all!

It's like when you find a job you love... when I make jewellery it is work but it sure doesn't feel like work! I love it! Whereas when I worked in an office doing admin it DID feel like work. :)