Men are like shoes?

[kittycat_black]

I'm always telling people that when I met Matt I just knew he was 'the one'. I know a lot of people don't really understand that and people are often asking 'but how do you just know?'. So I thought about it and I realised that the best way to explain it is using my shoe analogy. lol

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u deserve all of this!

[paranoid_undine]

that is really easy to understand..

im so happy u two found each other. makes me happy.. i cant help but grin that there r ppl out there so in love and so happy. I thought i had it once.. but that person changed so much and then it was never the same.. just me hanging on knowing that they didnt love me as much anymore. so in the end ur right the shoes didnt really fit and i cheated myself. we all deserve the best and most long lasting awesome shoes.. But im not sure if we all find them.. id like to think we do. Id like to thank u for just being so sweet to me, u have such an enormus sprit and i love it, and matt is sooooooooo lucky and u r also sooo lucky to have him.. but u two know that anyway. U give hope to the rest of us who r maybe down on love or never really experience real long lasting love.. I just want to hug u im so happy for u.. and ive never met u! hahah .. my love to u and matty.. give that lil peanut of urs a big squeeze.. I can understand u must wake up and just smile and think wow!!!!! i deserve this! I found the one! And u do deserve it.. u little cutie

Re: u deserve all of this!

[kittycat_black]

Aww thanks so much! ^_^ *hugs* I believe that everyone can find the 'perfect fit' relationship! You just have to believe it is out there... even at the times when it's the hardest to believe that. I think everyone has bad experiences with love along the way but if you keep believing and don't let it get you jaded, in the end I believe that the right love will come.

I think sometimes we just have things that we need to work through on our own first or something. I know that while I would have loved to have met Matt when I was younger we probably both had to get to the point where we were at when we met for it to work as well as it does. Y'know? Maybe before that point we hadn't learnt the right lessons... god forbid I would have taken him for granted or something.

There's a saying I've heard that says something about all the failed relationships only make you appreciate the right one more when you find him (or her)! Still I know that the whole process can be draining and confusing... I hope that the perfect love comes your way soon! Your heart deserves to find peace and happiness. *more hugs* ^_^